Mar 4 2008 Tuesday, 7:00 am
Bersama Mak Merah
hai madam red…(susah sgt nak call u kak red),i am not sure abt ur age…
madam red i need ur help..and to tell u the truth i dont know y i terdetik hati nak mintak tolong from u..
intro abt myself:
i am 32 year old married and mother of a 2 year daughter old n soon to see the world insyaallah by the 28 of april(scan nampak cam boy).my prob is tat i khawin since 12/2004 and my hubby is a pakistani(memang tak dapat org malaysia)by the way i am a indian muslim women(more like dad hindu convert mum lak malbari muslim) and unfortunatedly i am more to the dark skin.so susah la nak dpt mapelei mamak hehehe
ok ok back to my story since i got married me n my hubby ada kerja sekejap with western union pastu ada org dengki n mata pencarian kami stop terus..masa tu i was in pantang.then we tried buat business..mcm2 we tried kain la,website la,suplier workers la n macm2 lagi…n all in vain…
now im 30 weeks pregnant,i tgh tension gila i want my hubby to get a job..and to tell u the truth mcm job we applied(oh by the way my hubby went back to pak utk cari kerja n to take me along tapi plan to tak jadi i am worried abt the pergolakkan polotik kat sana)I HATE WAR
so he came back…n now my bros(younger) semua dok kutuk my hubby n me sampai my daughter yg 2 thn pun jadi mangsa..i m very sad la madam red rasa nak lari tapi tak larat nak gendong anak n yg dalam perut ni…i nak kerja but i have to wait till i deliver…
i have diploma in business admin and hubby lak diploma is associate electronic engineering but still we havent found anything yet..bayang kan la since 2005 till now i dont have a normal income i had to depend on my mum(yg minat merah just like u)she is a nurse in pantai puteri ipoh,i do have a 13 years old bro yg tgh study kat asrama penuh. my dad jgn tanya dia buat apa…wat i can say is tat my mum tgh support me,my hubby,my daughter n my bro,sewa umah,electric n water bill(kami dah tak tgk astro)..n kami semua mkn ala2 kadar je….
i really pity my mum…my hubby siap nangis2 lagi kat my mum mintak maaf coz dia menyusahkan my mum.but my mum said tats my duty now u susah i help u nanti mama tua esok tak leh kerja u all jaga la mama ye..and i know u all will be somebody nanti(doa seorg ibu)
and all tis make me cry n cry every nite b4 i go to sleep
madam red i need ur help to get my hubby a job,we tot of going to dubai atleast blh earn more money n can help my mum sekali( i ada send resume to all the web yg ada vacant still no news)if u ada contact kat sana it will be nice…and kalau ada kerja kat kl pun we all terima…
madam red i know u will b thinking tis girl dah gila kot mintak tolong kat aku pulak…but like i said my heart terdetik nak mintak tolong from u tanpa rasa malu n segan(i sound so desprite kan..i am ..ia m very very desprite
madam red i prefer kalau my hubbt n i dpt kerja kat dubai tu..far away from my bros n cepat sikit earn money to help my mum yg in debt…(byk jugak le hutang my mum)
thanks madam red….i rasa so relieve now tat i pour it out to you for no reason at all u lak jadi mangsa kan..kesian madam red….all i write above is the truth(tanpa rasa malu n segan)if u can plz do help me ye madam red…..
P/S HEHEEH EXCUSE MY ENGLISH DAH LAMA TAK KERJA N TYPE IN ENGLISH NAL REFER DIC MALAS GILA…SO EXCUSE MY ENGLISH YE…
**i got her permission to publish this email, if you can help this pregnant mom, in terms of dapatkan dia or husband dia kerja, is very much appreciated.
budleee
Mar 04, 2008 @ 10:43:54
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a bit sad the story.. although it can be a bit dramatized.. but i guess only those yg know this person will know the story…
Nadh
Mar 04, 2008 @ 12:17:43
Hey there,
I rase you tak payah lah go all the way to Dubai or Pakistan.. I don’t even think you should make any drastic move right now. (It could have been done years ago)
What I could suggest for diploma holders like both of u is that u might want to try to get a job in singapore? And perhaps rent a house in JB instead so u senang nak ulang alik from work. š
Malaysians banyak kerja kat sini, and what not – gaji yang dapat is somewhat double if you convert to MYR.
Anyway, just my 2 cents. All the best to both of you. š
the owner of the email
Mar 05, 2008 @ 01:27:06
budlee—-like u said only those who knows me knows wat im going thru…the prob is nobody know…i had to keep all tis coz i still have to care for the family pride…but what ever i have written above is the truth n nothing but the truth…tak ada tokok tak da tambah….it is all there
nadh—i nak quote u”I rase you tak payah lah go all the way to Dubai or Pakistan.. I donāt even think you should make any drastic move right now. (It could have been done years ago)”
the prob was tat masa awal2 dulu we had job like i said kena sabotaj..i was still in pantang n my 1st pergnacy was twins but only one survive(my beloved daughter) n i was still in trauma…coz my daughter pun need extra attention coz she was in nicu for a month…n the chances was very low..thank GOD she is fine now kalau tak u might meet me kat tanjung rambutan kot…
so i tak berani nak leave her with sapa2 mothers thing la katakan…
then when things was abt to be ok..she was diagnose wit R.O.P happens selalunya pada prem baby(n she was 30 weeks prem) so u bayangkan..when thru laser treatment she is fine cuma vision cam owl ..
so i couldnt do much at tat time coz she need me more at tat time….
girl i had a lot of dreams i was not what i am now…ppl yg kenal i mesti terkejut kalau they know tat the email belongs to me..i guess im good in keeping all up to my self…my hubby tgh buat odd job at the moment…but girl tak cukup girl….
abt the jobs kat s’pore itu pun i tried nadh…i memang tak da luck…n my hubby ..maybe bcoz he is a pakistani kot langsung tak dpt apa2 kerja…….
p.s if u all can help me plz do…thanks again