Jul 24 2018 Tuesday, 11:30 am
Raya-raya riaktakburs….
I mohon maaf kat my husband coz bukak aib (cos he thinks this entry is all bout his aib) also the privacy of our marriage to public. I never did pun before, this was the first entry yang ai mentioned dalam blog. All this while, since I ada blog (from my blogspot to the dotcom nih) on 2005, memang ai diam jer. I m sorry husband, I have to let it out.
Wpun tengah rapuh remuk. Ai have to move on. Coz this blog kena ada update. Ai tak nak la semua orang dok ingatkan pasal my crisis and all. Specially we have big kids.
So for diversion, kita riaktakburlah kain baju raya yang ai pakai for Syawal hari tu. Memanglah tengah masalah but macam biasa seperti berbelas2 tahun yang lampau, ai tak tunjuk kat orang. I make up ai melawa cam biasa but deep down in my heart, no one can see, dah fragile pecah berdentum.
Hari Raya Ketiga di Melaka
Outfit ni beli kat Bangi, butik yang bawak masuk all the vendors kain baju tuh. Takde pulak tulis brand mana nih, but merata la ada jual coz masa ai pi Mood Republik (few hours after i was dumped at HH event, i went there to MR alone kol 2-5pagi, tak sanggup dok rumah), banyak nampak orang jual. I bought 2 pairs, macam senang sempoi sarung for raya kat Melaka kan. Tak sarat, tak mewah and tak over.
Melaka trip was just me and the kids jer. No husband like the previous years.
The next Hari Raya ke4 masih di Melaka (with my abang sulung and adik bongsu), sama design fashion ngan yang hijau atas tuh…
i repeat lagi pakai nih for raya hujung2 kat my opis raya event
Raya Kelima, ni Lubna for Zalora
this will go into my preloved sale
oh ai memang buat sale kain baju (those in IG selalu dpt notification), every Saturdays petang but kena wassap dulu if nak join lah – 0193206264
Tom Abang Saufi
Zeeshan kan my magnet, while Abang Kakak jalan raya ngan kenkawan gi mall bagai with their cousins, ke mana2 ai memang berdua je ngan Zeeshan (he s the photographer for this photo)
Jovian Mandagie
Lubna for Zalora
Top tu ai beli kat bazar syawal at TTFC, sekali ngan clutch (but ai adiahkan the clutch to my gf)
Black bottom tu macam from the Fizi Woo but bukan, ai bought kat Ampang Park sebelum AP demolished
gambar masa hari baju ijau ni banyak sejarahnya, ada kejadian sedih la at home a night before, yang led me to have the vertigo on the same day. Berposing gambar cam nak rak tapi cover2 jer actually
Owlby ND of Nora Danish in black
maybe masuk preloved gak (baru pasan ai have so many blacks and greens for this year’s raya)
Dress jubah kakak, was sponsored by De Sophia
I got 2 pairs too, 1 ai sedekah kan kat my cousin’s wife. satu lagi ai dah pakai for my Prego ads/event
Tom Abang Saufi
Tom Abang Saufi
Tom Abang Saufi
Batikka from FV for FV’s raya event
Kain from Nuraini for Zalora
Rizalman Top for Duck Raya event
Bukan Fizi Woo’s bottom (sama beli kat Ampang Park)
Jovian Mandagie
And ada lagi lebih 15 pairs of baju raya baru gak tak perpakai. will go into dalam Preloved Sales Kain Baju Redmummy gak lah. almari dah berpadat bebenau. Those nak join the preloved tu, ada baju2 seluar keja gak. Memang ai pendek but ada je orang tinggi yang muat my pants / kain (coz ai tak potong). so come come lah nanti. Wasssap jer 0193206264. Size from S to L size.
For baju raya pertama, it s not in the picture, I tak amik gambar coz was so down. Pecah berderai remuk. Ada gambar raya anak2 jer. Baju raya melayu untuk suami pun ada ai belikan sekali ngan anak2 masa kami berempat pi Jakel few days before Raya but husband tak pakai pun. hemm..
Once again, sorry RD for that very simple story bout our marriage. The wife has been silent for over 17 years, apa hikhmah atas semuanya. Allah Yang Maha Mengetahui.
Thanks all for the wishes. Insyallah i can get through this.
strongwoman
Jul 24, 2018 @ 15:36:13
hello lovely Redmummy ! I feel so angry and sad reading this post. Buka aib???? Can you tell that loser that buka aib would have happened a very long time ago. That’s really buka aib !
Your last post is not buka aib at all tapi to finally tell very briefly macam summary la ye about what’s happened. You need some release from all the stress yang dia dah bagi kat u for so many years. We all nak jaga aib suami in these situations for years kita usually will cover up bagi excuses bagai to family and friends but then husband bodoh sombong egoistik macam ni forget all that part. Last post lah dia punye focus.
Don’t weaken to him Redmummy. He is continuing to bully you emotionally. Don’t fall for it. You dont have to say sorry to him at all. It should be the other way.
Sorry from me to you that i am going on and on but you are really a good person and an excellent mother and menantu, etc and this abuse to you is UNACCCEPTABLE. Stop bullying women. You will not like it when they finally fight back.
strongwoman
Jul 24, 2018 @ 15:39:08
Important thing yang i forgot to say. Your actions will show a good example to your boys on how to treat their future wive correctly. and especially to yr lovely daughter not to accept any man that may behave like this to her in future. Taat kepada suami doesnt mean taking abuse and being bullied.
DE SOPHEA
Jul 25, 2018 @ 10:54:03
thanks you Kak Red.. i hope you strong and we all love you
akubiomed
Jul 25, 2018 @ 13:00:55
Banyak nyer persalinan baju Raya. Apa pun be strong
Its hard being superwoman
Jul 25, 2018 @ 16:20:42
I have only so far sent my my love in your IG stories, unable to read your blog before. But what I can say is that , never did I thought you are having a marriage problem as your pics are all above families even from past Raya ! Women are great at hiding their feelings / emotional. But Red , you deserve to be happy too. Everyone do . Kita ni umur umur dah masuk 4 series ni , tak tau berapa lama lagi . So until when you want to be down , be sad , covering up for the sake of your viewers . No need la . Find your happiness .
Aryn Fadz Lee
Jul 27, 2018 @ 15:28:10
be strong ya kak RM
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Kakmahh
Jul 30, 2018 @ 08:34:22
Ada hikmah disebalik setiap kejadian, semoga kuat dan tanah.
nasa azman
Aug 07, 2018 @ 09:57:10
Betul tu puan, life goes on. Semoga kita buat yang terbaik setiap hari
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azita
Aug 10, 2018 @ 10:03:16
keep strong kakak Red Mummy…Allah sedang menguji kakak…Allahg uji kerana Allah tahu kemampuan Hamba-Nya…i’ll be with u always… 🙂
Nur Azlinda Azman AZMAN
Aug 26, 2018 @ 20:56:21
Moga akk terus tabah
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