Lalat

Aug 11 2008 Monday, 10:00 pm

Message From Nadh…

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My heartfelt sympathy for those readers who are left in a “blur” state for not knowing or understanding what is happening in this blog. I was one of you too.

Kak Red messaged me on YM as soon as I got online last night and I guess, something must be wrong somewhere as she is not someone who has so much time to spare to be ‘chit-chatting’ around.

Firstly I would like to apologize to a fellow Singaporean for my sudden “attack” at her tag board last night. I was in rage. Anyone who hears the same news will definitely be in rage. I wanted to find the main “culprit” but it seems that she had her blog removed. So whomever is related or was part of the “family” is definitely gonna get the blow.

Anyway, I did mention something about visiting my country, that, well okay I apologize too. What was I thinking? Cit cit. Singaporeans ni actually semua bebaik orangnya. [Anyone to second me?]

And after much thought, I will say that both parties are wrong. I don’t take sides. But as much as I’m concerned about being a fellow blogger, kak red’s avid reader and your silent reader, I guess I have to do something to keep the blogging community ‘clean’.

I am no blog inspector, neither am I a god-sent advisor so I don’t really expect you people to listen to me. [Lu sapa, gua sapa lah kan.]

You being a photographer who loves to eat, you being the friendly neighbor who loves to cook and travel, you being a bubbly and cheerful person, you being a Singaporean who doesn’t even know Singapore’s birth date [Chet.], you the guy with no name and to whom it may concern [I only visit these bloggers mentioned], I am sure and very sure that during the period you have known Kak Red, there is something that she has done good to/for you. Am I right?

Once hated, no matter what that person do, you will only have negative thoughts and in your eyes, that person is always bad. I have been in such state and I am not shy or ‘paiseh’ to tell the whole world about it. I had my fair share once too, and that is with the person whom I’ve been friends with for over 10 odd years. People change and well, no one is perfect after all and that includes me.

Semua orang pun buat kesilapan jugak, tapi mengata dan menghina sipolan dan sipolan di blog memasing adalah satu perkara that can really and will tarnish your image as a blogger. And worst, you leave readers in a “???” state. Do you think its fair to them? You may have the power to write and of course it’s your own blog, but do not misuse it. FYI, there are things like “plagiarism”, “intellectual property” and etc. Oh, did I mention about the possibility of facing a legal lawsuit for defaming someone? Oops.

I hope this will end. Easy said than done. And trust me, this blog “war” will never end unless YOU YOURSELF put an end to it. If you don’t even like that person, do not even visit their blogs, what not worshipping it (Our dear Kak Red has stopped visiting your blog, but people keep on coming to send news to her, the price that she has to pay!). And those being the “two-faces” who will tell stories to the mentioned parties, you whole lot is actually the mastermind in this. Happy eh to see people dissing each other? Stop your act at once and stop ruining other people’s lives. I am sure you have better things to do, no?

So please, keep it clean and start a fresh. I will not say, “Forgive and forget” as it is never easy to forgive and what not forget. Please forgive me, her, she, him and he but never forget, cos when you forget, you’re giving up the experience too.

I apologize again if whatever I wrote may seem rude but I ensure you I take no sides and only wanted what’s best for fellow netizens and the blogging community.

To my dear Kak Red, your redmummy.com has a promising future in years to come. I hope you will start doing it before others take lead. It’s okay if they’re not bothered to cos this will mean something. At least you made a difference. =) I am so sorry if this seems hard on you, but I can ensure that this is the best for you. *hugs* Please stay strong.

To LL, on a lighter note, I can accept the fact that you called me names. “Babi”, “Gemok”, “Pendek”, [Someone mentioned that I am taller than you of course!] and one more which I cannot tolerate lah, “Hitam”.

HITAM rambut kepala itu dijunjung, PUTIH tapak kaki itu dipijak.

Know where you stand my dear, know where you stand.

=)

Thank you all.

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Redmummy said: this will be the last entry bout this issue, i want to remain silence if it comes to my page again n again. Do respect my decision, saya x nak lagi terlibat dengan sesiapa yang berkenaan, saya x nak lagi membuka aib sesiapa. Enaf is enaf. Just leave me wt my own red world, my red blog my red family and my red life. Thankies.

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Category: [ Bloggers, Frens, Lalat, Redmummydotcom ] 14

Aug 11 2008 Monday, 5:30 pm

Mana bisa aku menangis…

akak,

pagi tadi masa bukak blog akak kan…nada suara tu cam tenang je saya pun pelik apakah sudah terjadi..nak marah pun cam ala2 tahan diri je…cam bukan akak la he he

dah tu petang ni tukar jadi agresif plak…

saya kesian ngan akak…emosi selalu terganggu..tido mlm lena ke

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ish akak ni saya benci ngan akak ke…

ok ni saya buat ikut firasat saya lah ye..saya cuba baca hati pikiran diorg..cewah..tapi bukan saya ye (kene paham konsep he he)

1) akak outspoken..mgkn sesapa yg pernah kenal ngan akak kureng berkenan & cam akan rasa akak ni bagus sgt (ive known you for 11 years kan kak?)

2) pastu mgkn akak suka show off w/pun akak tak berniat..biasalah org mmg tak bleh tgk kita senang

3) cemana lah akak ni bnyk duit sgt ye..duit gaji buat shopping, jenjalan makan angin pastu ada laki tanggung lagi..konsep nye diorg tak sesenang akak

4) cemburu kan akak yg ramai kenalan & famous sampai tv3 & paper boleh terjah akak

tu je lah kot…apa lagi ek, tatau la…di ulang sekali lagi…segala yg di atas adalah pemerhatian secara rambang…bukan saya ye…

akak kene sabar je lah…saya yakin akak ada motivasi yg tggi…segala dugaan yg datang samaada Allah nak uji kita atau balasan dosa2 kita yg tak di ampun kan lagi..

bnyk2 lah bertaubat mintak ngan Allah semoga di permudah kan urusan & semoga kita sentiasa tabah…ni pun peringatan tok saya jugak ni

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tu lah kan..bila pk2 balik apa sgt la yg diorg tak puas hati kan…yg backstabbers pun ramai ye, memula nak sgt kawan  ngan akak pastu takmo..konsep nye…diorg nak  merasa kawan ngan diva kot, pastu takleh tahan coz aura diva mengatasi segalanye
kalau akak bg tau akak nye plan sure menyumpah seranah diorg..tak puas hati la kata kan
boleh blah ngan diorg kak…jalan ke depan jgn toleh belakang
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aku disukai dan dikhianti.
tapi aku tetap disayangi.
🙂

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Category: [ Lalat, RedMummy ] 6

Aug 11 2008 Monday, 2:00 pm

Famous entry of the day :)…

http://redmummy.com/2008/05/11/from-suntec-to-orchard-road/

n suddenly this link is so famous today….

y meh?

u all ni suka tau gemerkan ai 🙂

http://redmummy.com/2008/05/11/from-suntec-to-orchard-road/

**Mael, demi engko mintak kurangkan entry over the weekend kan, sket je akak published kan. Dah khatam?

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Category: [ Lalat ] 3

Aug 8 2008 Friday, 7:00 pm

Mari menggalah!

anw ni aku nak cakap lah lam blog aku generally ni, eh terasa ke? so sapa suh baca blog ai kan?

huh! aku yang dah merata dunia pergi pun x riuh ….. macam biasalah kan dia kan mulut kepoh semua nak dicanang, baru bape minggu dah canang2 oi aku dah berisiiiiiiiiii. n ko pikir macamana aku yang x bercampo ngan orang ni orang tu boleh tau dari awal2 lagi, kalau x dia mencanang kat satu dunia. orang tua2 cakap kalau belum lepas 1st trimister jangan riak takbur, kang…

so to you yang read my blog, the sender of the email, yang aku tempek email tu  kat dalam blog ni and gambar2 dia lam private blog tuh (oh too badlah kan :P) to you yang sent me an email maki2 aku i think a month or 2 ago, here a message for you…

someone from that place has been communicating wt me bout you (aku punya aman tenteram ingatkan dah berenti kejer ke goal ke rupanya idup lagi). pastu macam tak sangka lakkan tetiba je ada orang datang and menyampai hal orang tu yet aku x mintak2 pun…hem.

ok back to that story, someone from that place told me that most of Petronas ppl knew about your bad attitude before, they even had warned us bout your case (baru aku teringat di pagi penghujung 2006 dulu tu ada orang cakap)

oh now i know….

n aku baru tau gak yang out of 5or 6 of them, 3 or 4 are on my side…. 🙂 even they dont ask and communicate wt me directly. hemm wonder macamana depa tau kan? adakah kau menjaja cerita on your side but since they know your bad mouth and busuk’s attitude, they turn to me?

i tot they know you more than me kan? hiks….

ko tak terasa ke they pretend to be your fren but actually nak bagi ko lagi lupa diri….

if i m in that position lah kan, aku lagi rela tinggalkan orang2 itu daripada play along the game 🙂 , oh yek, ppl pretend that they like you so tu yang ko tak tau hiks…

kasihan ya kamu 😛

ye saya sudah tahu yang kamu adalah janda dan bekas GRO…huh, menipu orang cam nak rak, berialah cakap ‘anak dara bagai’ rupanya ex GRO some more. lalat GRO is your name. tu lah kan, sedap2 maki orang cakap orang macam2 awak x sedar dalam masa yang sama, ada mulut akan bawa berita pasal awak. len kali dik, cermin sket mulut puaka engko tu…

sengaja saya sediakan entry khas ini di lebih kurang waktu yang sama dengan entry2 lalat lain coz memang dedicated khas for x janda GRO itu. too bad… (hint: dia ni yang panjang2 tu lah, yang bila lam kot sume orang dimakinya tu pasal ramai yang x nak main pasalkan mulut puaka dia, la ni ngah memboyot kan, but ai m sure korang mmg tekejut kan bila dia pretended dia anak dara yet dia janda, before though skang dah kawin lain.  kes Ex  Husband and Ex Mertua dia tuntut dia bayo 30ribu sebab dia mintak cerai kat laki lama, ha details ye ai cite!)

oh let me remind you again, kalo nak email saya, sudi2lah pasal macam biasa saya akan buat apa yang patut ngan email awak tuh…mcm la u tak biasa kan. n no name mentioned here, probably this is a story during your ex husband’s time? kot kan… 😛 . n ko baca balik email yang ko anto kat aku tu, now semua kupulangkan semula kat ko via this entry. you are such cheap lady!

**redmummy.com’s readers and all, no need to leave comments coz aku tak nak dia malu ngan bacaan korang, biar dia malu ngan entry ni, supaya dia ingat ‘you scracth my back before, now i m scracthing your back!’. Revenge time. aku dok dendidam, aku observed, remember?

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Category: [ Lalat, Shoes ] 0

Aug 6 2008 Wednesday, 6:00 pm

Red Family n Red Guests…

tetamu besar yang menjengah malam selasa indah kami 🙂

abang n gegirl masih memalu wt our Red Guests, lagipun masa ni abang dah nak kena pi tidur daa….

quick dinner is served

the graduation gifts for both bro and sis

Doctor Hannan and Doctor Shieda

(Nan cakap, kak harus sebut Doctor tau!) cis cis cisss

budak kecik tu mengada pakai mask

coffee break after the dinner

gegirl ni senang je, ko baik ngan dia, tackle dia ajak dia memain, borak ngan dia, belajar ngan dia mengaler ke hapa, kompemmmmmmmmmm jadi geng!

kan dah cakap memang gegirl n auntie shidanya mulalah melekat. dia dah mula nak menyentap merajuk bila both of them nak pulang. sama jugak macam kes chique comel dulu, nak balik je dia bengang. ko hengat orang nak layan ko jer, orang pun tau nak bawak diri lah gegirl oi. hishh!!

gadget tak udah2..

Nan oh sorry Doctor Hannan yang holding nokia E71 x udah2 nak comparekan ngan abang merah dia yang tetap kata berry is the best, lantak korang lah!

sirman also a berry’s user, ko lupa ke we bought for his dad’s day!

antara hadiah2 yang dihadiahkan dari Moscow oleh kedua pasangan kekasih itu utk Red Family 🙂 nak blog sesatu nanti ai will do it in the next entry insyallah. Ada gak trauma bintang air mata sedih sentap oleh dedua budak ni masa dapat adiah ni..duhh! sket je pitch aku nak naik tau…

Ukhwah kami harap2 berpanjangan, kalau hati ikhlas berkawan lamalah menjadi kenalan, even ngan anak beranak pun jadi geng, ambil sahaja ini sebagai contoh. bukanlah aku nak kata, napa le ngan aku je ada yang tak puas hati nak bergaduh, ye saya bukan wanita perfect tapi awak juga bukan seorang yang baik tingkah laku.

kalau x suka, x yah lah berkawan ngan ai, tp dendiam sendirilah kan, ini ko pi jolok sarang tebuan cam aku ni, ada ke patut…. ai m not that bad though i may look like an evil to you. think twicelah kalau nak memaki saya pun, aku pun ada hemah aku sendiri.kenapalah aku begitu baik sangat menanam budi sedangkan budi dibalas baalifbaya! kalo ku tau, kubiarkan kau merempat kat rumah tumpangan tu dulu!!!! bodohnya aku kutip ko dan dapatkan engko  5 star hotel, bodohnya aku bersangka baik rupa-rupanya sungguh biadap wanita itu dibelakangku. ha tu bolehlah korang nak perkatakan. benda2 ni mmg aku x blogkan, budi2 yang kutabur tp bila kutahu apa yang lalat ni buat kat belakang aku, i feel sorry betullah. betul2 menggunakan aku!

anw all, terima kasih kerana sentiasa berdiri menyokong redmummy.com . Insyallah, ada rezeki kita bertemu lagi kerana buat masa ini, aku sudah tawar hati untuk bertembung mata dengan orang2 yang tidak pernah lagi kukenali, apatah lagi saya sudah dapat tempias pahit lalat2 durjana. Tidak semua yang menyakiti, hanya segelintir, dan yang menyakiti itulah menyebabkan aku menghentikan all bloggers meeting wt me, seriklah. sungguh!

Farah, ko nak tunggu taun depan ke appointment ngan akak? bersakan nak mintak last appointment, patpat kuihlepat!

Untuk Nan dan Shieda, berbudilah pada orang tua kalian berdua dahulu sebelum terus berumahtangga, jodoh kalau ada tidak ke mana, kemudian jangan ambil masa terlalu lama untuk mengikat kasih mutlak itu, sambil2 itu budi pada ayahbonda masih boleh lagi dipanjangkan, itu sampai ke akhir hayat tak boleh putus ye adik2. Berhati2 juga dengan manusia berlingkungan lalats, bukan apa, takut ada mata yang mengintai, takut ada hati yang mahu merampas kebahagian kalian. manalah kita tahu….manusia itu hatinya hitam kadangkala, wpun kulitnya putih melepak.

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