Feb 18 2009 Wednesday, 8:00 am
Bersama Mak Merah
salam kak red…sy just nk tnye opinion n suggestion psl problm sy ni..
insyaALLAH bln 5 ni sy bakal bergelar isteri org..tp mungkin sbb perkenalan yg sngkat ni, mmbuatkn kami mengenal diri memasing mse process btunang ni..die ni jenis berkias2 kalu die nk tego pe bnde yg die rse sy kne ubah…so,inila assupmtion sy, on how he’s feeling:
1)sy ni bertudung..so,xdela mnitikberatkn sgt psl kecantikan rambut ni..tp,ble da nk kawin ni,sy jadik riso..kte knela nmpak mnarik dpan suami kn… jadik,cmne penjagaan rmbut yg btul??..stiap kalu shampoo rmbut,sy xkeringkn gne hair dryer..sy just lepaskn rmbut sy,n biar die kering sndiri.. tp sy rse bau tu xharum sesangatla..so,the question is,bley x akak citekn step by step cmne nkjadikn rmbut tu cm best je bau die…
2)tunang sy cm pnah citela die knal bau org..means,kalu ade org lalu,die ckp die tau org tu pkai perfume+losyen bdan pe…xpnah plak die ckp “syng,i tau u pkai losyen pe”.. jadik sy rse cm in a way,die nk bgtau yg die xsukela sy cmtu… tp,mmg sy xpkai losyen badan pn…sbb sy assume bdan sy xberpeluh,so xpyahla pkai losyen.. sy mmg pkai perfume tp,xdela plak nk pkai losyen2 ni.. ingt xpenting..huhu..die plak pnah ckp,”pkai perfume xsme ngan kalu kte pkai losyen skali” krenye,losyen ni, is a must la..so,bley x akak cte ble kte nk pkai losyen ni.. lpas mandi,sblum pkai baju,kte da kne pkai ke,etc..kne slalu pkai ke even kt opis pn.. n brand lotion pe yg bley menusuk kalbu tunang sy ni,bg die cm KNAL SGT ngan bau bdan sy..huhu
memule rse cm geram je sbb die xaccept me 4 what i am…tp,ble pk scara rasionalnye, bnde tu mmg kwjipan utk pmpuan,mnjaga diri kn..sy je lack of knowledge psl bnde ni..
so,sy nk change b4 sy kawin nnt…at least,sy puas hati pe yg sy da buat.. nk tnye org,face to face,cm malu sbb bnde ni basic..so,bersama mak merah je la sy bley nk tnye…if akak ade tips2 lain,bleyla akak share ngan sy k…
Many thanks…
sgt appreciate…
nora
sue
Feb 18, 2009 @ 09:35:22
nora,
firstly congratulations
marriage is not a destiny but a journey..therefore u have to make an effort to make your journey worth it even thou bersimpang siur, ada bumper sana sini , ada road block and what not..
that means, bila dah kahwin la kita kena jaga dan berhias lebih2….
sebab lelaki macamana pun suka tengok benda cantik…
its ok to make some effort pakai losyen, pakai perfume and deodorent w/pun takde body odour…for ur hair this is the time u boleh pi spa and saloon utk rejuvenate before the big day….i cakap thru experience yg tak seberapa ni dan from others exp.
my mother in law selalu nasihatkan kami all the menantus to dress up, jgn pakai t-shirt yg baggy dan kelabu, nanti husband tengok pun tak minat….pakai cantik dan wangi baru husband dok teringat kat bini dia…
apapun back to basic, cleanliness first than beauty ok dear..
hope this opinion could help u
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Misz Faz
Feb 18, 2009 @ 09:45:53
Cik Nora,
Baguih la hang da mula menitikberatkan soal penjagaan n kewangian diri.I assume tunang u ni jenis lelaki “metroseksual” sampai bau losyen & perfume dia leh recognize..hebat tu!Actually info yg u nie boleh didapati dalam pelbagai jenis majalah wanita mcm EH,Intrend,Rapi,Cosmopolitan etc..dari kecantikan sampaila kesihatan..macam-macam ada..maybe u da boleh start buat koleksi majalah cam gitu tak pun pegi je bookstore n selak2 mana patut ..(free reading gitu)..pasal rambut tu, macam kita bertudung ni kena lebih usaha sket la coz kulit kepala berminyak n berpeluh mungkin memberi bau kurang enak..itu pun ikut jenis rambut..yang penting kalo rambut basah jgn terus pakai tudung..hehehe nak kasi harum maybe u kena pilih syampu yg sesuai then sekali sekala kalo duit berlebih g wat rawatan rambut ke..tapi skrang ni macam2 produk ada kat pasaran leh cuba dirumah je…Pasal perfume ngan losyen pun actually bergantung kepada hormon yang dihasilkan oleh badan kita, kadang2 perfume tu sedap baunya bila org lain pakai tapi tak berapa nak sedap bila kita pakai.Perfume bertindak balas dengan bahan kimia yg dihasilkan oleh badan kita melalui peluh.Biasanya pefume da ada set losyen @ mandiannya sendiri..after mandi guna losyen tu dan akan bertambah wangi bila disembur perfume.Tapi bukan semua orang suka kot pakai losyen ni..kalo dok kat tempat beraircond ok kot..kalo outdoor aduyaiiii tak tau nak cakap..melekit2 la kot…uissshhh panjang lak i menulis..nie semua i dpt hasil pembacaan dan pengalaman..mungkin ada yg boleh diterima n ada yg tidak..kita tunggu pendapat GBM yg lain…to Nora selamat pengantin baru OK.Tahniah!
Bai
Feb 18, 2009 @ 09:48:52
rambut tu ptg pendek tp kemas minta hairstylish tu buat yg sesuai dgn muka kita ni ha.Losyen tu pakai lps mandi dah kering badan bgi kira masa nak pki baju lah nak tidur pun sama gak paki brand bodyshop yg sesuai dgn thp kulit 9yg cpt peluh,kuat peluh atau x de peluh)
Then lps tu pakai lah pewamgi bagai lah,muka lak klu duk kat umah pki jelah foundation nipis2 je kira make up light2 ni leh bljr dgn beauty consultant lps tu tiap2 blh gi lah facial spa bgi ye.Kira dah khawin ni dari ujung rambut sampai hujung kaki kena jaga luat dlm gitu.
Bai ckp ni dari pengalaman Bai ye psl suami ni suka tgk kita kemas gitu……..pki baju yg sesuai duk kat umah jgn lah pki yg color suram2 gitu.All The best ye.
mummyhanny
Feb 18, 2009 @ 09:49:30
agree with the first opinion. untuk rambut, go for pro! pegi saloon…coz depa lagi arif psl penjagaan rambut. and ask dorg punye consultation on what type of product yang sesuai. tak kisah berabis sikit sebab syampoo kan buleh pakai lama…
utk body, i think bodyshop products pun bagus jugak. most of them ada complete range from bodywash to mist to scrub to lotion, etc. sekali sekala boleh buat body treatment kat spa or beauty center. wangi-wangian tu later on boleh terus ask your fiance what kind of scent that he loves.
tapi pendek kata, hygiene is the most important thing. nampak bersih, suci murni, senang mata memandang n hidung menghidu…hehehe.
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wana
Feb 18, 2009 @ 10:20:42
yesss…i agree with all the comments..mana yg bole di ikut go on..
jgn awal p’kahwinan je nk jaga penampilan..kalo bole di rumah b’hias sebaiknya tp di luar umah seadanya..suami je yg bole tgk kte keseluruhannya kan..
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Umimia
Feb 18, 2009 @ 11:00:10
Congratulation Nora…bakal jadi isteri orang…
Bagus soalan Nora ni tau..at least dia cuba untuk berubah dan nak ambik tau hal2 begini..hal ni memang kak red lah yg paling expert..saya pasti jawapan kak red pun sebenarnya dah cukup bagus utk u follow…
Pengalaman sy pulak..nak share ngan Nora..just pastikan diri bersih…kalau dulu pakai sabun biasa selepas ni cuba tukar pulak dengan shower gel..byk yg wangi dlm pasaran tak payah yg mahal pun takper..
untuk lotion pulak, kalau tak larat nak beli yg mahal..beli jer lah lotion apa2..selalunya lotion ni memang bau dia sedap…I suka pakai Body Butter, Peach by Body Shop..bau buah peach sedap…pakailah after mandi dan setiap malam sebelum tidur..ke seluruh badan..
untuk rambut pulak..kalau tak larat jugak nak spent lebih ke saloon or spa rambut just pastikan rambut setiap hari dishampoo (gunakan shampoo lembut kalau selalu shampoo rambut) dan sentiasa guna conditioner and leave on conditioner…mesti rambut bau wangiiiiiii sangat…
just sharing my 2 cents experience…ciao
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ann
Feb 18, 2009 @ 11:04:35
hi nora, congratulations on your upcoming nuptial! since you didn’t provide us your hair length, i can only suggest this much. if you have super thick hair, perhaps minta hairstylist you nipiskan sket your hair, so it speeds up proses nak keringkan rambut.
drying your hair naturally is recommended than pakai hairdryer all the time, tapi kena make sure rambut dah betul2 kering lah before pakai tudung. if you have long hair, try as often as possible to let your hair down, jgn ikat. one whole day rambut tu terperap dalam tudung, so bila kat rumah let your hair a room to errr.. ‘breathe’ sket.
never ever spray perfume onto your hair. it’ll make your hair dry in the long run. going to hairsalon is a nice treat once in a while, tapi boleh jugak nak buat deep treatment sendiri kat rumah. what i do is lepas basahkan rambut, massage your whole head with olive oil (agak2 ikut kepanjangan rambut) mixed with 5 drops of essential oil (boleh beli at body shop, you can buy peppermint oil or lavender or frankincense, up to you). bila dah massage, cover your head with shower cap. leave for at least 30 mins then bilas and shampoo.
as for body care, right after you step out of the shower tu la the best time nak pakai body lotion. masa our body is still damp, the lotion will soak right into our skin much faster than masa our skin is dry. at least once a week, scrub the whole body. kalau nk try, boleh guna my suggestion: mix coffee granules (apa2 serbuk coffee pun boleh) with olive/vegetable oil, jadikan a thick paste. bila shower, once badan dah basah sental lah badan dengan coffee scrub nih. dah puas menyental, bilas badan. don’t worry, bau kopi tu tak melekat sangat. what you get later is super soft and smooth skin, insyaAllah!
one mistake that many married women do is to let themselves ‘go’ lepas kawin. masa dating bukan main conscious sampai tudung, handbag, kasut semua matching2 nak kasi tayang depan boyfriend, tapi lepas kahwin kasi tayang kain batik dengan t-shirt gelebeh pulak. men are visual creatures, so kita kena la kasi visual2 yang menarik kat depa.
hope this helps! i hope i don’t sound condescending, it’s just that i like to see women who make the effort to improve themselves =)
puteri sejinjan
Feb 19, 2009 @ 14:24:16
laki camni cerewet…ape kate ko minta tunang ko belikan losyen yang wangi utk ko~ko jgn kuar duit..die da bg hint kan…ape kate ajk die pi shopping minta die belanja losyen + perfume..suruh die pilih…
ps:x minat laki camni…
puteri sejinjan
Feb 19, 2009 @ 14:24:56
owh jgn lupe ye..minta skali duit nak pi salon..ahaks
cikponbopbon
Feb 19, 2009 @ 15:03:47
haa..
beli la intrend. tu mmg bagus tu. ces.. cam keja sana pula. hee..
tp really. tu bagus la.
tang2 perfume lotion ada memcm lg tu..
ikut badan kita. so, cuba u gi sniff sniff kt memane. try test tgk mana y ok dgn badan u.
ada yg bau sedap sgt2 dkt bdn org len tp kt kita cam kureng kick je
p/s suka sgt bau mulut baby baru lahir. lain sgt. sedapppppppp
p/s/s kak red ingat lg ke? dh lupa lg tuuuuu
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arlina
Feb 20, 2009 @ 15:19:14
hai nora. am a bit late la..tp honestly kita kena jaga penampilan diri. Kalau bkn utk org lain pun tp utk diri sendiri. to jgn sampai obses dan lari bajet ok? 😀
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zizilala
Feb 24, 2009 @ 10:31:55
salam,
cam pembersih jek tunang awk tu ye nora.. wangi sgt ker dia tu? =P
xpe laaa.. ikut je laaa kan.. nnt yg untngnye awk jgk..