Mar 5 2009 Thursday, 7:00 am
Guest Writer – JAUHI DARIPADA EX ANDA
Nasihat of the day JAUHI DARIPADA BEKAS PASANGAN ANDA (KEEP YOUR DISTANCE FROM YOUR EX)
Tidak sume daripada kita berpeluang menamatkan hubungan cinta dengan cara yang spatutnya (kahwin). Ada yang menyulam chenta almost 10 years tapi ending, xde jodoh. Ada yg asek malang je dalam bercinta. Jupe, kenal, jatuh cinta, rupa-rupanya milik orang lain. Manusia dan cinta memang x boleh dipisahkan. Jangan pisahkan.. Aku dan dia.. Tuhan tlglah, ku cinta dia. Hu? Salah tune. Back on track. Being in love such a v v v wonderful feeling. And when your heart broken, it’s part of life. Take it. Face it. Move on la beb! Buat pe tggu buah yang dah memang bukan milik kita.
Only some rare cases buah tu bertukar tangan. Tapi, jgn la asek mengharap. Dah putus, putus la. Dah cerai, cerai la. Jgn nak buat muka kesian. Bazir tisu je. Buat penat kepala je. Memang, it’s hard to forget your loved one. Especially, the first love. First cakap I lap u, u lap me. First kasi bunga. First kiss <– mcm2 dh haa skang. First teman tido pun ada. Pepe pun, it’s on yourself. Dah tau salah, buat juga nape? Dah break, haa, sengih la. Tak yah nangis2 ngadu2 kat org len. Orang lain boleh tlg dgr je. Nak buat camne lagi kan. Back to forget your loved one. Cik adik, abang, makcik, pakcik, sume la.. Memang, I know. It’s v hard. Eh.. Nak kirim msg la. Miskol la. Takpe la, as friend. As friend. Memang ada couple even husband and wife yang dah x together, still can be friend.
TAPI, they make it a distance. Not a close one. Nanti jiwa merana. Okay, one example : Jalan-jalan terjupe ex. Pe nak buat? – Tegur la kan. Tak pun buat-buat x nmpk. Or just smile. It wont harm. BUT!! No exchanging phone number or email add or even business card. Pe tah lagi if your new partner ada kat sebelah kan? And make it cool. Jgn la pula peluh nitik-nitik. Jatuh saham tuuuu. Some people even after 2-3 years still cant forget their ex. Even the ex already move on! Yea.. Ada org macam neh. Orang masuk minang, tolak. Parents jodohkan, kahwin then cerai becoz still nak yg dulu. Hello dik??? Move on la. I like to move it move it. You like to move it move it la jugakkkk. Cesss.. Cam madagascar dh.
The main point it, MOVE ON! Dah bape tahun tak kontek, tetiba send msg or email or smile at friendster ke facebook ke (oh.. klu x silap facebook tu antara sponsor for Israel), x pun miskol. Adeiii.. Pe masalah lu beb. Tahan la nafsu tu sikit. Memang la godaan syaitan tu banyak. Tapi, you’ve to determined la sket. Silap-silap ari bulan org tu dh kawen anak 2-3 ke, then their partner terperasan ada some weird msg (even that msg just say ‘Hi’). Tak pasal-pasal perang meletup. Kan naya je jadinya.. So, ladies and gentlemen.. Forget your past. Before what you’re today is because the past. And what you’re going to be pun also becoz of the past. MOVE ON PLEASE!!! Sakit mata tengok orang camni.. Ramai lagi out there for you laa.. Tak yah nak kejar your ex. It’s not that you’re not the one. Your ex is not the one for u!
p/s even send msg say : hopefully you’re happy with your life now or seangkatan dengannya.. Amatlah dilarang oleh kerajaan keep your distance from ex! Jangan cari pasal oiii p/s/s owh.. ini adalah umum ye. Sape terasa pedas, dia la yang terlebih makan cili!
Mrs Taj
Mar 05, 2009 @ 07:52:30
101% correct! jgn sekali kali exchange ur phone num, buss card etc with ur ex…malang akan muncul!! huhuhu
klu nmpk pun buat2 tak nmpk tp klu dah nmpk say hi then pura2 nk cepat..buleh? 8)
bgs la cikponbopbon kuarkan issue nih…bravo!!!!!!!
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cikponbopbon
Mar 05, 2009 @ 08:48:33
@Mrs Taj,
haaa.. buat2 cepat. meeting ke dating ke pe ke kan?
hee.. pandai ye puan mrs taj.. neh mesti byk pengalaman. kekeke
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mrs.sheikh
Mar 05, 2009 @ 07:53:31
sentap nyer baca entri ni.. 😛
hahahha betul le..
payah nak lupe…. 🙂
cikponbopbon
Mar 05, 2009 @ 08:49:40
@mrs.sheikh,
oohhh.. neh mesti antara yg dh break.. makan tak lalu.. tidu x lena neh. hehehe..
cara-cara tuk lupa :
> korek blog puan merah neh la di kala-kala merindu kt ex. hee
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nadia
Mar 05, 2009 @ 08:15:28
dis is cool!
well done!
cikponbopbon
Mar 05, 2009 @ 08:49:58
@nadia,
mekasih2
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kui
Mar 05, 2009 @ 08:19:34
pon pon sket utk cikponbopbon (awat la susah sgt nak taip ni..haha) ..pooooonnn
jauhkan2.. wpun hati mronta2 nak tau apa khabarmu di sana..lama sudah tak berjumpa..haha
dan sesungguhnya, novel/cerpen/drama berkenaan luahan rasa org putus cinta dan xleh melupakannya adalah cerita yang plg membosankan… klu masa tu korang putus cinta mmg rasa asek nak sebut pasal benda tu jek, tapi bagi org biasa, plss la.. move on!!! (eh emosi lak..haha)… sket je otey 8)
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cikponbopbon
Mar 05, 2009 @ 08:52:42
@kui,
wahhh.. pon pon je ke. air sirap ke xde? hee..
if terjupe org yg asek dok keja ex lg la kan..
mcm xde keja jeeee. kejap2 tanya kita.. eh.. dia ok ke. buat pe ek? klu anta msg xpe? ishhhh.. siram dgn air kopi kanggg
hee.. xpe. emosi tuh pentingggg = D
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cikponbopbon
Mar 05, 2009 @ 08:54:48
wahhh… satu2 cikponbopbon reply. gile ke po. nmpk sgt pale dh ting tong.
korang puji2 awat?
nk mintak banje?
mntk kt puan merah laa.. neh tanah dia. kita neh numpang je.. hehehee
puan merah?
mood ada baik ka ini ari?
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momguess
Mar 05, 2009 @ 11:03:51
@cikponbopbon,
wahhhh, kak red dah ader PA yg tlg reply, klassss gitu
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arween
Mar 05, 2009 @ 08:55:40
cik pon,
sesungguhnya sy sgt benci situasi di atas…..
kenapalah susah sgt dorg nak melupakan benda yg dh lepas
makan hati jugak 🙁
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cikponbopbon
Mar 05, 2009 @ 10:53:11
@arween,
lebih makan ati if ex partner still dok keja kan?
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cikping
Mar 05, 2009 @ 09:05:59
huhuh.
sentap jg bace post ni.
& ni lar yg ai tngah facing skrg.
“”Sape terasa pedas, dia la yang terlebih makan cili!””
mmg tngah trase pedasnye pun cik ponbon oiiii.
ark ark ark. 8)
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cikponbopbon
Mar 05, 2009 @ 10:55:05
@cikping,
nama pun lebih kurang je neh.. hee..
tu mesti terlebih beli cili kt pasar la tuuu
kurang-kurang kan ‘cili’ la yee
pi minum air bebykk
sarung kasut enbag spek sume, jln pi klcc ke
carik len!!
yg lg kaya bergaya n berjaya!
dannnn
beriman beramal bertaqwa! = D
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TipsGoda
Mar 05, 2009 @ 09:07:06
one mistake yg people do is to keep close with your ex pastu having a hard time moving on…
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cikponbopbon
Mar 05, 2009 @ 10:55:31
@TipsGoda,
100 markah tuk u!
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TipsGoda
Mar 05, 2009 @ 12:10:54
@cikponbopbon, owh?hadiah takde ke?hehe
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cikponbopbon
Mar 05, 2009 @ 12:28:38
@TipsGoda,
botol susu nk? = D
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momguess
Mar 05, 2009 @ 09:15:47
insaffff japss, huhhuu.
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cikponbopbon
Mar 05, 2009 @ 10:55:51
@momguess,
hehehee
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arlina
Mar 05, 2009 @ 09:34:48
waahhh. Bahaya nie entry!
bg saya nk kwn ngn ex shud no prob. tp pd ex n current partner la prob kot. so baik xpyh kwn la. lg pun kalo untung xpe (materialistik kan?)… jadi kalo xuntung tak pyh la.
mcm mane kak red? wahh.pakar motivasi ni.:D
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cikponbopbon
Mar 05, 2009 @ 10:57:13
@arlina,
betul betul betulllll
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Diana-k
Mar 05, 2009 @ 09:52:05
been there done that…
but finally….i’ve moooooved onnnn!!!!
weeeee….
🙂 :love:
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cikponbopbon
Mar 05, 2009 @ 10:57:57
@Diana-k,
tahniah!
sila banje diri anda air ribena yee
p/s claim kt puan merah. hee
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Umimia
Mar 05, 2009 @ 09:53:07
yer betul….setuju…..lagi2 kalau dapat husband yg ‘anti-ex’ kepada wifenya…kalau sebut nama org lain yg sama ngan nama ex kepada wife dia pun boleh lain macam…baik lupokan ajo…
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cikponbopbon
Mar 05, 2009 @ 10:58:32
@Umimia,
ye!!
tepat skaliiiii
dia ckp je x dengki. tp mukaaaaaaa masam semcm
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momguess
Mar 05, 2009 @ 12:02:35
@cikponbopbon,
mmg ponnn, kkdng xphm ngn kaum ADAM ni, mulut lain, ati lain. ciliiiiii kangg
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zizilala
Mar 05, 2009 @ 09:54:23
kawan ngn ex pon xbleh ker?
hehehe
syoohhhhh!!!! pi jejauh laaa.. jgn ko coba² menggoda ku lagik
:love:
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cikponbopbon
Mar 05, 2009 @ 10:58:56
@zizilala,
ehh.. kena goda blk kee..
jgn u tergoda sudaaa
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edzura
Mar 05, 2009 @ 09:57:17
this one so related to me and really open my eyes! thanks kak red for sharing this info from your other readers.
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cikponbopbon
Mar 05, 2009 @ 10:59:52
@edzura,
biar lambat mata terbuka dr x tbuka lgsg kan cik edzura
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midcupid
Mar 05, 2009 @ 10:31:42
betul..betul..betullll…
buang tenaga jerk kn..kn..kn…
I like to move it..move it
MOVE IT (Madagascar)
🙂
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cikponbopbon
Mar 05, 2009 @ 11:02:57
@midcupid,
u like to move it move it
we like to MOVE IT!
hee
puan merahh.. xde sesi nyanyi keee
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syahira
Mar 05, 2009 @ 10:50:38
as’kum.. ponnnn.. ponnn.. hi cik cikponbopbon. yes.. i totally agree with you. just keep at least 10km or even more distance with Ex. 🙂 😐 cik pon pon.. do you have any ideas how to do with Ex who are always come closer and busy busy keep on asking about you? :choler: again.. i am out of topic! 😆 huhu.. sorry kak red :beurk:
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cikponbopbon
Mar 05, 2009 @ 11:14:32
@syahira,
wsalam. neh mesti terbelit2 nk type cikponbopbon. hehehe
jgn layan org macam neh.
show him dat u oredi ada new partner (if u do).
change phone num/email/url blog/sume la
sound direct!
UNLESS!
haa.. neh mmg jarang ye..
deep down u rasa dia la the one. tp amat jarang ye
perasaan yg slalu kita rasa after break tu.. perasaan mengada nk rasa kasih sayang. we’re afraid of losing love. bukan sbb true love. risau kang xde sape nk ckp dh makan lum? lap u. mish u. sume.
tp if ur ex, annoying sgt2. sound je. klu x tau, meh i tlg sound. hee
suh je la dia baca entry neh. moga insaff sket. hee
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syahira
Mar 05, 2009 @ 11:41:43
@cikponbopbon, askum.. thank you very much cik pon pon.. yet.. this annoying guy still keep on following me :p =( i doesn’t like~~~~~~ even, i’he change my hp number, email address, move to another places and etc.. :bloody: since he got my best friend’s number, he spend time with my best friend to get to know about me. i guess.. maybe some of our friends here got similar problems like me. luckily, my best friend always ‘boo layan’ at him. nge.. why and what lah this kind of people want on his life?! :[ cik pon pon.. fyi, now i am living happily with my new BF. ups.. is this too private to share? :((
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cikponbopbon
Mar 05, 2009 @ 12:01:20
@syahira,
living happily? mendalam je makna tuuu
dah besor.. pk sendiri la yee
ke am the one tak paham. hee
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syahira
Mar 05, 2009 @ 12:09:46
@cikponbopbon, ya ampun. i’m sorry cik pon pon. i don’t mean ‘the living happily’ as living together. sorry.sorry. i’m apologised, the term that i used is very deep meaning. hhuhuhu.. so sorry.. back to that case, i just bear in mind, the only thing that i should do is keep my distance on him.. cik pon pon.. sorry again..
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LadyinRed
Mar 05, 2009 @ 12:38:06
.:: Pernah berada dlm situasi itu… Natijahnya??? Hamekkk!!! :bloody: Padan muka, merana badan :cool:… Now, pegi mampus la lu segala mak pak ex :aie: … Menyusahkan hidup aku je… Ggggrrr… :p::.
cikponbopbon
Mar 05, 2009 @ 12:43:51
duk tggu2 mana la kaum adam komen
ilang ke. mendiam diri jeeee
heeee
maell
dimana dikauu
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mamaranger
Mar 05, 2009 @ 12:58:08
mmg susah nak lupakan our first love esp kalau “cinta terlarang”..makan hati berulam jantunglah jawabnya. tapi apa2 pun alhamdulillah, walaupun dah lebih 12 tahun tak “berkawan mcm dulu”, kami masih lagi berkawan baik. masing2 dah ada 3 org anak dan masing2 tahu tanggungjawab masing2 terhadap keluarga. itu yang lebih penting.
tapi bagus juga isu yang cikponbopbon ketengahkan ni. sekurang2nya sbg peringatan kepada ibu2 dan juga bapak2 yg kadang2 tu terlupa kat rumahtangga kalau dah terjumpa ex dia semula. saya sokong 100%.
cikponbopbon
Mar 07, 2009 @ 16:57:58
@mamaranger,
saya pun sokong akak! hee..
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ayu the sun
Mar 05, 2009 @ 14:41:06
200% correct!!!!!!
sapa cakap move on senang.. of course la susah.. but move on!!!
i like this issue..
clap clap cikponbopbon!!!
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cikponbopbon
Mar 07, 2009 @ 16:58:23
@ayu the sun,
clap clap clap tuk cik ayu the sun
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alisha
Mar 06, 2009 @ 17:01:01
mutut!mutut!
saya sokong….!!! mmg la susah nk lupa 1st love..tp, kna la usaha..kn?
kalo gmbaq dia stil lg simpan – nk wt kenangan kunun-kunun..hampehhh!!!
mmg la xleh lupa maaaaaa..
cikponbopbon
Mar 07, 2009 @ 16:58:57
@alisha,
kekdg tu gambo boipren time sek ren simpan lg tu
heee
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ANN
Mar 07, 2009 @ 09:50:25
be like me – Out of sight, out of mind! After we broke off, just move on!
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cikponbopbon
Mar 07, 2009 @ 16:59:35
@ANN,
ye kan cik puan ann.. dh move on, jupe yg lg baik kan =D
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