Nov 13 2008 Thursday, 8:00 pm
Bersama Mak Merah…
Salam..Hi Kak Red, hope you’re in good of health along with hubby n your beautiful kids. Just wanna share my feelings with you n your fellow readers.
Me & hubby have a small lil stall in downtown cheras, its actually our partime business since both of us are working fulltime in the day. we have been doing this lil business for almost 3 years, before we got married. as usual, sometimes there is up n downs in our business. sometimes we make money, & sometimes we loose money.
i guess, this is part & parcel of having a bussiness. the best part of doing this business is, we get to meet a lot of different kind of ppl..sronok gak sometimes..honestly, it is tiring, since me n hubby keja in da day, abis je work at 5.30 pm, both of us rush back home to take our 3mth old daughter at mom’s place, den i cook, den both of us get ready to open our lil shop in downtown till abt 2 am..i guess, it has been a daily routine for us.
sometimes i dont go, hubby je pegi sorang coz kesian kat baby Tasya nak susu badan. herm, Yesterday dated 11 November 2008, just before we wanted to open our shop, we realized that we got robbed. Gosh, all our ‘brg niaga’ was not in the car..the car was empty..nothing left except bits n pieces of broken glasses..i wanted to cry, but my tears just didnt came out, i wanted to scream but my voice was not coming out..i guess it was not our rezeki..kami redha dengan dugaan Allah.
all our 3 yrs assets had lost in just 1 nite..i’m not begging for them to return my things, but y la must u mencurik huh??? tade keja lain ke? suke sgt ko curik brg org? we lost about rm8k worth of things..
with wut had happen, hubby & i have decided that we will still continue our lil business, wut ever had happen, would not stop us from trading..insyaAllah ade rezeki, we will start berniaga back b4 mth end..i really hope things will go well after this..
*ps: to whom yang curik all my brg niaga, u will nver be safe di dunia mahupun akhirat”..amin..
thanks kak red n fellow readers for reading my ‘luahan perasaan’..
Lolita
Nadh
Nov 13, 2008 @ 20:16:23
Sorry to say this, but I just can’t help but to notice things like this happening to orang yang ada business sendiri; a lot of times.
Have u ever thought, why it happened? Kenapa dalam senang-senang tu skali Tuhan turun kan balak, dalam satu malam everything is gone?
Please do think back, dalam masa 3 tahun lepas, have u done your part by giving back to the society, at least?
Saya bukan nak mengajar, tidak. Cuma kadang kala bila dalam kesenangan, kita jadi alpa dan leka. Jadi saya disini cuma nak ingatkan.. Harap kak lolita jangan salah faham ya.
Dalam keluarga terdekat saya pun ada berlaku perkara sebegini; in a different form of “dugaan” that is. Ianya jadi suatu pengajaran buat kami semua..
Walau apapun yang berlaku, kita patut redha.. Ye dak?
Teruskan usaha anda though! 🙂
sabrina
Nov 14, 2008 @ 09:15:39
@Nadh,
yap i agree with u nadh..even kaloau bukan in business dugaan cara lain pasti datang…
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Lolita
Nov 14, 2008 @ 09:53:38
@Nadh, Hi, thanks for your feedback, really appreciate your comments. anyways, i take it as part of dugaan whereby Allah menguji umatnya. Alhamdullillah, i still have my family beside me and wut ever had happen has taught me to always be grateful dgn segala pemberian Allah. 😉
maelbest
Nov 13, 2008 @ 20:43:53
omg,..i;m so sorry lolita,..
sabar k my dear,..hope u n ur husband tabah,..
btw,..sy akan doakan yg ur next business akan lebih berjaya dan berjaya dan berjaya,..lets us pray and let Allah did His job,..
all the best babe!
ain_jeziraj
Nov 13, 2008 @ 21:06:12
bodoh la orang yg curik tu
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yaya
Nov 14, 2008 @ 09:12:54
@ain_jeziraj, mangkuk hayun sompek tul!
lilred799
Nov 13, 2008 @ 21:49:21
salam lolita…
am really sorry for what had happened to u but i cudnt help but to be agree with nadh
minta maaf bnyk2… jgn la pulak ckp “ni la org melayu…bangsa sendiri dlm kesusahan tau nak hentam je…” NO! am faaarrr from being hentam-ing you
its always easier said than done… having to go thru all this dan masih ade semangat untuk meneruskan perniagaan.. anda sgt tabah dan cekal! u shud be proud of that…not many “melayu” has that kind of attitude
cume lepas ape yg dah berlaku…jadikan iktibar….ape yg Allah beri ni…MESTI ade hikmah disebaliknya….lepas setiap apa yg berlaku..sama ade baik atau buruk… first thing we need to do is muhasabah diri…. check balik through out the years and through out the lines (family lines) ade tak salah silap di mana2…kadang2 Allah didik kite ni secara tersirat… mungkin bukan salah kite… tp salah mak bapak kite ke…. tok nek kite ke…. tp kenapa Allah bls ke kite? sbb kite perlukan pengajaran itu… if its not today, if its not tomorrow….. it can be yeaaaarrrsss ahead…. but believe….somewhere somehow… u just need to expereince this…
i will aways pray for ur success…. better strength in u n ur family…. just look at it in positive ways ye… n yes! u have the right untuk tidak menghalal kan ape yg telah di ambil n what not… but my advice to u… just accept it as it is…
Allah Maha Besar…. mungkin Dia akan gantikan dg sesuatu yg lebih baik?
kite tak tahu kan?
hang in there puan lolita…. keep on trading ….kalau ade rezeki…fara balik mesia.. boleyh fara jalan2 downtown…. 😉
Lolita
Nov 14, 2008 @ 10:02:52
@lilred799, hi FAra, tks for your feedback dear, dont worry nanti fara blk malaysia, kite contact contact la yer..take care.
enchekchotz
Nov 13, 2008 @ 23:36:37
OMG!!! i really hate to hear this kind of things happened again & again… kesian kat kak lolita & husband… kenape la ye ko aniaya orang?? memang tak selamat la hidup ko kat dunia & akhirat!!! :p
my dad pon pnah kena rompak jugak… twice!! 1st time last year, during hari raya prayer kat tepi masjid…. boleh plak mase tu my wallet n h/phone tinggal dlm dashboard… mcm pasang jin je perampok tu kan… dia pecahla cermin passenger depan & took my belongings + audio system… pagi raya tuh… org tengah semayang, time tu nak pecah kereta org!!
2nd time, ni paling mencabar keimanan & dugaan paling besar… my dad’s car stolen from INSIDE our house compound… boleh?? punyalah canggih, dia boleh wat keja rompak tu without any noise… my dad perasan mase nak pegi subuh kat surau… tejelepok la orang tua tu depan rumah pagi2 buta… from police investigation, they suspect ni kerja org dalam service centre Honda (my dad’s is CRV)… mase my dad hantar service MAYBE the mechanic made duplicate car key… this car plak mmg senyap mase on engine.. tu yg x perasan tuh… last2, kantoi jugak la kat singapore… they want to ship the car to dubai….
mungkin ada hikmah la disebalik kesemua musibah itu… who knows kan?? yg pasti kite redha saje… benda dah nk jadik… and I totally agree with nadh & lilred punye statement… kadang2 bila kite dah comfortable, sometimes kita alpa/lalai… just need to figure out laa… in my case, still wondering what have we done in the past??? :oups:
Lolita
Nov 14, 2008 @ 10:06:02
@enchekchotz, hi, tu la, kite keja kuat, org lain senang senang je curik hasil titik peluh kite kan, nvrmind, Allah sentiase menguji kite dlm ape jua bentuk, and sebagai umatnya, kite harus tabah n bersyukur dengan ujian dr Nya. tks for the comment. take care.
casper
Nov 14, 2008 @ 09:00:46
lolita…
ishhh..tak tau nak kata apa..cuma akak amat simpati sgt dgn apa yg terjadik. jahat dan kejam sungguh perompak tu. mmg tak akan aman hidup dia…
teruskan usaha jgn putus asa yer, sbb bukan senang nak senang tau..tp cukup mudah nak susah semangat kena kuat…
tabah yer dik!!!!!!!!!!
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Lolita
Nov 14, 2008 @ 10:07:24
@casper, hi, yup, bukan senang nak senang! tks for the comment! take care.
sham
Nov 14, 2008 @ 09:04:23
simpati saya kepada lolita and hubby. setuju dgn point nadh and farah. kata org duit/harta yg kita dapat kene kongsi dgn og2 lain (mak, ayah, org susah, anak yatim), so, kita kene sucikan duit/harta kita dgn zakat & sedekah… jadi, teruskan semangat berkobar2 anda utk teruskan perniagaan itu, Insyaallah Allah bagi hujan kat kita, sebab Allah nak bagi pelangi indah untuk tatapan kita. saya doakan perniagaan awak akan lebih maju lepas nih. lolita jual apa… buleh gak gi jenguk2… mari kawan2 serbu gerai lolita, beli apa yg patut…
Lolita
Nov 14, 2008 @ 10:10:53
@sham, hi, tks for the comment. sy jual shawl, pashmina dll..jemput la dtg downtown cheras kat lot 39. 🙂
tapiiiiiiiiiiiii, end of the mth br start niaga balik,skarang nie tgh kumpul brg brg utk diniagakan..
sabrina
Nov 14, 2008 @ 09:18:56
am sorry to hear that..apapun dugaan bukan hanya datang dalam biz saje..ada cara and banyak lagi dugaan kita akan hadapi..apa yang pasti ia mengajar kita jadi lebih kuat..like me myself..dugaan bertimpa timpa datang yet am still survive..kak red pun dengan macam macam tohmahan yet she still setia dengan blog dia..redha dengan dugaan sbb yang pasti you akan lebih kuat dan kebal
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yaya
Nov 14, 2008 @ 09:21:45
salam…simpati lak akak membacanye…ishk…mula la airmataku ini nk menitik…
sian ngenangkan modal kita bli brg2 tu hangus cmtu jer…sungguh la x berhati perut org tu..sabor ye dik..selagi kita hidup,dugaan x kan renti2..anggap je xde rezki n insyaAllah,rezki yg akan dtg di kemudian hari melebihi dr ape yg ilang..dan paling penting,HIKMAH DISEBALIK APE YG TERJADI,HANYA ‘DIA’ YG TAHU…
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Diana-k
Nov 15, 2008 @ 08:50:56
@yaya, yer laa kak yaya….. only God knows…kadang2 kita tak nampak hikmah tuh……
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zizilala
Nov 14, 2008 @ 09:38:54
😐
sabar yee kak lolita..
mayangsari
Nov 14, 2008 @ 19:52:21
i memang tidak paham dengan masyarakat kita skang… nak dapatkan duit cara mudah… tgk saja dlm paper skang nih sana sini dibunuh,,,,sbb nak mencuri… diragut dan macam2 lah…dorang pikirlah… maacam mana orang lain susah oayah bangun pagi atau lewat tido untuk dapatkan duit…..
to lolita n hubby… banyakkan bersabar… dan teruskan niat anda… allah tak pernah zalim pada kita…ini mungkin dugaan/ujian….. untuk rezeki yang lebih murah…. kita doakan ye…
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Diana-k
Nov 15, 2008 @ 08:20:08
perasaan dengki totapp adoo kan…takleh nak nengok org senang!… sabor jer la kak lolita…. mungkin pasni rezeki tuh bertambah2 plak kannn…..??who knows??
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ayu
Nov 17, 2008 @ 11:07:19
lolita.. i second both nadh & lilred..
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ayu
Nov 17, 2008 @ 11:20:50
so now..
lolita & hubby..
cliche lah.. untuk ayu pun berkata..banyak2 bersabar…
yang pasti.. redha dengan dugaan nih..
mungkin, Allah nak bagi yang lebih baik untuk kita..
jadi.. Allah bagi dugaan untuk nilai sejauh mana ketabahan & keredhaan kita menerima nya…
bangun and teruskan usaha..
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ayu
Nov 17, 2008 @ 11:21:41
psstt..
meh la sini details.. kot kami yg gang bas merah ni nak p terjah ker..
🙂
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