Mar 12 2009 Thursday, 7:33 am
Guest Writer – Dating column…
*Kenapa Lelaki Tak Patut Tanya Soalan-Soalan Ni Bila Keluar Dating*
*“Sayang,kita nak makan kat mana?”*
*“Honey,hari ni keluar kita nak pergi mana?”*
*“B,nak buat apa hari ni?”*
To all the ladies,soalan-soalan yang biasa you all dengar kan?
Biasanya tempat paling popular soalan ni keluar ialah kat dalam kereta.(kadang-kadang nampak muka u terus je soalan tu yang you dengar dulu dari si dia)
Kenapa guys suka tanya that question? And why girls do really like to be asked like that everytime keluar dating?
Meh nak explain skit(ehem,ehem)
Guys-they have this pemikiran yang diorang pikir kalau die kasi apa yang that girl nak, she will be happy. Guys are straight forward creatures.If guys want to know or want to say something,they just go straightly for it. So,it make sense la to a guy by asking questions seperti di atas,kira die rasa he made a good move la by asking what she wants to eat and what she wants to do..
Tapi…most of the time,he don’t know yang that is not apa yang that girl wants…
Why girls tak suke dengan semua questions tu?(kadang-kadang ok la,tapi everytime?)
Because apa yang lelaki tak sedar is perempuan ni nak dibimbing.She wants her guy to make that decision.
Kalau that guy asked questions tu semua serupalah macam dia ‘melepaskan’ tanggungjawab membuat decision tu kepada that girl.
So,kepada lelaki semua,be a man and be her guide.Someone yang dia boleh depent on.Someone yang confident enough to make decisions and lead her on that date. That’s one form of attraction jugak.
So,next time,instead of asking *“Sayang kita nak makan kat mana?”* tukar la kepada
*“babe, I nak bawak you makan tempat special tonight”*
What do you guys think?
So,hope you guys enjoy the post and kalau nak tahu lebih lanjut pasal tips on dating and relationship ni,boleh check out my blog at http://www.TipsGoda.com
Regards,
Aidil
www.TipsGoda.com
Sirman: ai nak bawak you makan kat tempat special tonite
Redmummy: kek mano heh?
Sirman: Q Bistro, you kan suka makan kat situ
Redmummy: hallooooo! tu bukan tpt special, tu tempat makan jimat banjer
pu3mawar
Mar 12, 2009 @ 07:59:45
betoi betoi betoi……
tang dialog tu nak gelak pecah perut…..
kalau la benar berlaku…. agak agak nye mcm mana ek…?
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cikponbopbon
Mar 12, 2009 @ 08:04:07
haahahha
baca ari neh lekat tuk ari neh je la
sok lusa lum tentu lg
heeee
cam kursus kawen
tips goda bleh buka tmpt kursus nehh
TipsGoda
Mar 12, 2009 @ 09:11:29
@cikponbopbon, hehe,bagus gak idea tu..kalau bace ari ni lekat hari ni je nak kene ade tips hari2 la la..takpe,takpe..tak kisah..
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ayu the sun
Mar 12, 2009 @ 08:14:05
atleast sirman ajak akak g tempat yang akak suker..
muahahahhahahahaaa…..
😛
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buntalz
Mar 12, 2009 @ 08:27:17
hahhahaha…. memang betul tips tuh…
tapi dialog tuh lagik betul… huhaahhahahahhhhhahahahahhahah 🙂
ANGGUN
Mar 12, 2009 @ 08:57:33
ehehehe….kelakau le topic pagi di RM… 🙂
Az
Mar 12, 2009 @ 09:12:21
Kak red… tergelak besar saya baca dialog tuh… mmg argh kan selalu benor dialog tu sampai boleh di hafal. he3x. kekadang tu kan kak red buleh gaduh tau disebabkan dialog ituueewwwww!!!
TipsGoda
Mar 12, 2009 @ 09:12:39
@ceera, betul2..kadang2 kira ok la tanye that girl nak makan kat mana..tapi kalau dah all the time semua bende nak ditanya..tak ke masalah tu..:)
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Julie
Mar 12, 2009 @ 09:12:54
betul kak red….asben julie mmg pengemor soklan mcm ni….bengang btul nak jawab….leh bawak perang kadang tuh,…..suppose they know how to threat kan…ke they just prentending dunno….kunun2 mcm nak manja la kunun…
TipsGoda
Mar 12, 2009 @ 10:13:05
@Julie, ok la tu die nak manje2..tapi kalau dah evertime bukan manja lagi dah.’malas’ nak pikir namenye tu..hee
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momguess
Mar 12, 2009 @ 09:26:22
haruss print out statement niee, yerrr incik2 ADAM, tlg fhm yer communication between us, huhhhhh
adik manis, ada jgk itu abg syg mau ajak special place. kira occay lahh tuuu
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TipsGoda
Mar 12, 2009 @ 10:15:22
@momguess, yup yup…print out and sebarkan kat kawan2 through email so that si dia tahu…
mane tau pasni dia bawak makan tempat ‘special’ ke..hehe
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momguess
Mar 12, 2009 @ 10:43:04
@TipsGoda,
tapi yg bengang nyer bile kite tunjuk statement ni kat kaum ADAM, dan2 tu lah die jwb
‘hishhhh, i xde masa arrr nk pkir benda nie semue, xkn tu pon u nk tanye i’
benganggg jerrr rasa cam nk sekeh2 jerrr.
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Diana-k
Mar 12, 2009 @ 09:56:32
mmuahahaha…
special aperr QBistrooo……
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Julie
Mar 12, 2009 @ 10:53:50
ahah….bukan asben jer wat soklan mcm ni…boyfren-boyfren pun ye gak…ada member sebelah ni…ngadu benda yang sama gak…..alih2 dia siap warning….jgn tanya lagi…..pandai ajak…pandai la nak bawak pgi mana….hhahhahahah…amik satu…
riena
Mar 12, 2009 @ 11:03:02
yang saya plak masalahnya camni :
asben : kita nak makan kat mana ni?
saya : ayg nak makan kat bla bla bla..suka makan kat situ..
asben : hmmm..camni, kita makan dekat tet tet tet tet aja lah..
geramnyaa!!! dah ada cadangan yang gi tanya kita tu watpe???kalau asben/bf kayak gini gimana plak tu???
pu3mawar
Mar 12, 2009 @ 11:36:42
@riena,
lenkali jawab… “BAIK TAK YAH TANYA….!”
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riena
Mar 12, 2009 @ 12:41:19
haha!! itu ayat carik gaduh namanya..
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exact
Mar 12, 2009 @ 14:01:24
yela,
ladies nie kan selalo ngidam..
so kne laa tanyer nk mkn katne or so on..
kang laki2 nie bwk mkn kt tmpt xsodap complain lak…
sinagamerah
Mar 12, 2009 @ 18:32:11
while it is correct that us, men will oftenly ask that question, we do have a reason(s) behind it.
1) Kami ni mostlynyer jenis sempoi. Kalau nak makan belakang lorong pun ok janji sodap! and of course murah…kekadang jek tekak terasa gatal nak makan besh sikit. Itupun jarang berlaku…so kalau bawa mem yang dah buh makeup, dress up cecantik adaker sanggup nak makan kat tempat2x camtuh????
2) one more place yang kitaorg suka lepak ialah kedai mamak atau memana kedai yang ada screen besau! lebih2x lagi yg tgh ada show bola….kalau time mati kutu nak sembang, at least ada le screen wat tenung. Kang kalau tenung aweks kat sebelah tak pasal2x kena simbah air.
3)kita takmoh nak susahkan diri sendiri pas diner tuh nanti. Karang awek/bini asyik kompen. awak ni asyik2x makan ikut selera tekak awak…camno tuh??? bebelan akan berterusan yek…
4)kita ni selalu nak jaga ati pompuan. bila kita wat sesuatu tuh ada reason and most of the reason nak jaga ati pompuan ler….betapa mulianya ati kitaorg tau! itupun kena komplen.
5)kita takmohler, awek/bini kita tu sekadar patung cendana. Ikut jek….kami (at least akuler, hehehehhehe) nak le aweks aku yang ada buah fikiran gak…
6)selalunye bab makan, pompuan nih fussy. On dietler, haperler….kitaorg dok bantai jek. ada kes, aku bawa aweks pi makan kat tempat kelas skek, sudahnya dia mati kutu tak tau nak order. and ada kes gak, pi tempat makan special le, makan dua tiga suap daaaaaaah…tak abis makan. bukan murah ooiiiiiiiiiiii…. tak heran le kalau pas kawin, laki cepat gumuk sebab kena abiskan makanan org umah…
sekian terima kasih. 🙂
momguess
Mar 13, 2009 @ 09:52:08
@sinagamerah,
makkkk aiiii, byk nyer jawapan.. ni jawapan kpd persoalan ker atau alasan semata2, cehhhh wahhhh, yaaa ampun pakkkk
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lilred
Mar 12, 2009 @ 19:20:17
this is exactly true….
kadang kadang sampai berenti tepi jalan semata mata tak tahu nak pergi mana
makan ape…
adeyh ler…sbb dha hbis idea nau nak makan ape
tp suke…. sbb at least bincang before making any decisions
but when the time comes, tetibe kata… lets go here and have this this this
mmg seronok sgt….coz usually it happens rarely once in a blue moon kan
lagi satu,
perempuan nih suke ckp the opposite thing yg diorg nak
hahahah termasuk lah saya 😛
and men are too straight to understand it
saya sedar benda nih bile my guy friends ckp
perempuan ni ape yg die ckp.. we have to pantul kan balik ikut cermin
take the opposite
hahahhahha indeed true!~