Aug 19 2008 Tuesday, 12:00 pm
Bersama Mak Merah
salam..
kak red..i need your opinion…saye de mslh ngn my hubby..kitorng dok seperate he’s in mlk and i kat kl..die keje kat mlk and baru je smbg blj wat diploma kat sane..i study lagi so i dok ngn my parents..we all kawen when i buat my dip and now i continue my deg and another 1 year to finish..we have a son dah 2thn umur die..skang nih prob coz ari tu we have a fight and die mintak i benti belajar and duduk ngn die and family die kat mlk if not die nk we all tak de hubungan..d prob is i decided to smbg blj sbb for my son nye future and using my scholar to support duit anak..the problem i tak nk duduk ngn die kat sane because of financial as he doesnt affort to support duit anak and everything..slme nye he only give 100 per month and tu pon lepas satu tin susu je..all this while my parents yang banayk tolong…what should i do kak red?i nk sgt abeskan deg and then tinggal ngn die..
Kirana
yuzz9071
Aug 19, 2008 @ 12:57:56
perbincangan adalah jalan yang sebaiknya utk cari jalan keluar……
masing2 dah matang kan…..ada anak dah pun……
minta bantuan family atau rakan rapat bagi pendapat…
try ur best!!!…….
psst…dia bagi u 100/per month??? aduss..perkahwinan kan satu komitment…kalo dia belum mampu tanggung anak bini nape kawen awal sangat….
sian kat ur parents kena tanggung plak u dan anak…..
umimia
Aug 19, 2008 @ 13:06:42
ermmm….awal2 dah tau tak mampu nak tanggung family..kenapa kawin…
tapi dah jodoh yer..so apa yg korang boleh buat ialah selesaikanlah bersama…kalau u berenti belajar carik jalan sape nak tanggung family dan mcmana….dah kawin terpaksa lah susah senang bersama…
doakan semoga korang berjaya…caiyok..caiyok…
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A N N
Aug 19, 2008 @ 13:08:12
wah, problem ni sgt sgt berat. Susah nak pilih kalau diberi ultimatum mcm gini. Kalau yr husband tunjuk yg he is very responsible & beri nafkah yg cukup, tak susah coz you can always belajar part-time kat Mlk. Ni setakat kasi $100, memanglah tak cukup! such a waste if you just leave yr studies like that too! Takut dua2 tak dapat in the end. So, better you discuss secara baik dgn husband that you harus complete yr degree in KL for both yr future jugak. You can give him a time frame eg. you need 1 year to complete it. Some men are egoistic, nak dgr cakap dia aje. But its yr life & yr future you have to think abt too.
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atty
Aug 19, 2008 @ 13:57:40
susah gak nieh..
ikut kata hati u..tp jgn tinggalkan cita2 u..
kalo takleh buat keputusan sendiri..kena bincang atau bawa org ke 3 utk kasi pendpt..
atau kena tanya kdua2 belah family..
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yummy mummy
Aug 19, 2008 @ 16:37:02
finish your studies first..after all it’s only a year to go…talk to him so that he understand why u r doing it. get help from your in laws to help in understand…yep..there’s a lot can be done if u can get yr in laws by yr side…
chuya
Aug 19, 2008 @ 18:27:21
same problem wit me.. betul2 samer… location pun hampir sama.. kat melaka…
hmmm rite now sy baru habis blaja.. my hubby pun dulu suka ugut2 sy camtu, berenti blaja n so so la.. tapi sy tekad. wat ever it is jgn berenti blaja. its ur future baby.. kalo awk berenti blaja, awk leh pastikan ke 10 y ahead nanti dia takkan tinggalkan awk?? apa yang takkan tinggalkan awk?? pelajaran, ilmu….
kalo dia memang perangai baik, kira yg terbaik, maybe u have to think balik la.. kalo rasa dia mmg takkan sia2 kan awak, maybe patut ikut kata suami.. as for me, hubby sy bukan la terbaik.
dulu pun sy pk cam yg awk pk… habis kan blajar ni, pastu leh hidup bahagia ngan hubby. tapi lain plak yg jadi. lelaki ni penuh ngan ego. sepatutnya skang ni sy da leh mulakan hidup baru. saya da keje yg agak baik, tapi dia plak taknak pindah dok sini. taknak dok skali…. sy rayu dia, tapi alasan dia malas dok kl. so….
bab duit pun samer.. byk mak apak yg support. tat y dia lepas tangan.. kan…
ni way, kirana, kita leh share our prob.. add me along.bitc@yahoo.com
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