Feb 27 2010 Saturday, 7:00 am
Bila yang lama add di FB…
ni ada isu semasa, very light lah, tak yah lah masuk BMM, kita borak2 santai je kat sini. a fren of mine ni memang suka kawan sana sini, ngan kawan lama, ngan musuh yang nak kembali menjadi kawan. bla bla bla lah. but satu hari tu, adalah pulak ex bf dia add dia dalam FB.
so dia serba salah lah
nak diapprove jadi fren FB, kang apa pulak kata suaminya
boleh ke suami dia tak kisah je kalau dapat tau nampak ada ex bf dalam list of frens dia. kalo dia x approve kang, memang nampak lah dia x nak looking the past. but berkawan je lah kan. ntah2 takkan bertegur sapa langsung kot, sekadar add jer. dedua pun dah beranak pinak, dia siap tengok lg gambo mamat tuh nya bini n mamat tu sendiri, lawa lagi dia lah tau jaga badan ahhahaa, sempat lg tuh. so there s nothing to be worried lar, cuma tang suami di luar2 sana, korang sentap ke kalau ex bf bini korang add depa lam list.
serupa gak situasi yang mana ex gf laki korang add laki korang dalam fb depa. maghah dak? terluka ke or terasa cabaran ke or what?
i was playing chess at nite when a fren asking for my advise. hemm…..nanti aku tanya sirman ek, dia bagi idak ex bf aku add aku. tapi sementara menunggu munasabah2 yang akan sirman mencecehkan, kita dengo korang nya fakta dulu yek.
anw for my case, i know my ex bfs and sirman’s ex gfs ada baca RM, diam2 follow our families stories, diam2 korek sume cite Red Family, dok sorok diam2. takper…dok je diam2 yek, tak yahlah in touch ke ngan saya ke ngan sirman ke. ai x suka you la u. so far those yang add saya dalam personal RM nya FB, hanya real frens sahaja aku added, selebihnya aku send korang to my fanpage. real frens means real yek, if u r my readers pls harap sangat add yourself in my fanpage, not sending notification to my personal one, itu mmg so far 100 orang je kawan reality aku yang ada which means from my schoolmate dulu, ITM, kerja, kawan2 secemolot, family, bloggers tertentu yang can be trusted. itu sahaja.
so your call…bolehkah yang lama datang add add you all lam FB ek?
gina
Feb 27, 2010 @ 08:21:16
Kak, kalau mak kiter yang add x-bf dalam FB mcmana pulak ceritanya?
Liza
Feb 27, 2010 @ 08:34:36
to me, and this is my personal opinion…who’s opinion matter the most…and again to me, it’s my husband, hence baik jaga hati suami dari hati org lain especially someone from our past
wanie
Feb 27, 2010 @ 09:02:56
Terkecuali sbb husband saya tak main fb ..hehehe
tapi tak la kot, macam tak suka jek. karang nanti dia nak tunjuk2 pulak kat wife/gf dia eh ni la exgf i dulu..
tak rela i kak red 😛
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Tian Chad
Feb 27, 2010 @ 09:56:48
Wow, can I consider myself one of the blogger that can be trusted? =D =D
I am sure Sirman is very considerate about above issue? =)
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fana164
Feb 27, 2010 @ 10:05:12
Kalau sy, honestly xkot.
Biar la dia dgn bidup dia, sy ngn hidup sy.
Past is past hehe
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cathj
Feb 27, 2010 @ 10:46:09
Hubby kita tak kisah… (MMM…tak main FB pun laki aku ni… LOL)… tapi dia tau kita add ex kita… we are only frens pun… dah tak der jiwang nya pun… lapuk dah hahahhaha… tapi bagi yg freshy2 tu… tak tau lah pulak kan… 🙂
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aineeyusry
Feb 27, 2010 @ 10:52:36
better jg ati husband dari jg ati ex-bf.dun create an issue.my husband does not have a fb account too but he does read my fb account.so be it,to me ada ex-beau dlm frens list or not its not a big deal coz i have other frens to keep me occupied.vice versa if my husb do have a fb account i wud not want to see his ex-gf in his list of frens too!!! :p
Bella
Feb 27, 2010 @ 12:03:12
I’m not married but putting myself in a married position and in the opposite’s shoes, I know I would hate to see my husband’s ex in his FB, following his updates and looking thru his photos.. Plus I’m the type that dah goodbye tu, no turning back.. Principles diri kena kuat.
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syahjehan
Feb 27, 2010 @ 12:13:08
salam k.red,
sy add juga my ex dalam fb, and my hubby knew about that.. yg penting jgn selindng.. kalau main kaber2 line tu yg membahayakan kesihatan..kakaka..
apa yg penting,jgn coba2 nak main api.. stakat ni just add aje.. takat nak chat2 takde la polak.. my ex pon msg me about his business aje..hehe.. ajak join la apa la.. MLM- not my taste..akkaka
have fun with fb k.red 🙂
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sue
Feb 27, 2010 @ 14:13:22
Salam kak red..Errrmmm..sue accept jer xbf suenyer fb..coz we all still bleh kwn baik sampai la ni..Asalkan..masing2 tahu jg diri dan tahu kedudukan masing2..ok jer..
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zalia
Feb 27, 2010 @ 15:17:02
kalau sy, sy x kan benarkan.. past is past, so bile ex-bf or ex-gf masuk life kite semule maknenye past will always present..so no more past gf or bf in my life..hehe..
kalau dia ckp cume nk kwn je kan..eh what for?dulu masa kapel apsal x kwn leklok kan?
F I T
Feb 27, 2010 @ 16:37:24
err mana yang betul-betul baik dan nak kawan balik tu add je la..tapi kalau ex tu betul-betul melukakan dan sangat annoying baik tak pyh add..kawan dulu-dulu yang makan kawan tu tak perlu lah rasanya sebab jiwa manusia ni bila sekali melakukan kesalahan terus akan diingati sampai bila-bila. 🙂
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Heartless Devilish @ Reen
Feb 27, 2010 @ 17:01:48
i added all my exbfs in my fb (yg ada fb lar kan)
some of them married la.. i got comments from them ada yg wifeys kurang selesa ngan my ‘kemunculan’ coz am still single..
some plak.. bley plak wifeys dierorang berkawan kawan with me cam org laen..
bole siap gi dinner sesama segala…
ekceli sumer itu terpulang pada niat…
to me.. my intentions are just want to keep in touch je and be frens.. bukannye kiterorang nih bermusuh…
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kasih8953
Feb 27, 2010 @ 17:21:32
klu saya lah wlupun hubby xde fb, sy xkan accept dia sb sy xnak dia tahu apa2 psl saya & sy xnak ambik tahu pasal dia juga… yg dah lepas tu lepas la…
ninyUK
Feb 27, 2010 @ 21:58:30
ok je kot. 🙂
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Nad Eusoff
Feb 28, 2010 @ 02:01:57
so not OK..heheh..
better tutup cerita lama
tak payah la nak muncul2 kembali
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sWeEtdARLinG
Feb 28, 2010 @ 14:07:11
ada jer saya add ex-bf kat dalam tuuu… tapi nothing dah, bual2 kosong, bual anak2.. no more nak ngungkit kisah dulu ke hapa ke… kalau husband saya pun sebab saya yang tunjuk kat dia… dia takdok FB yer…. [tek berniat pun nak ambil kesempatan di situ]
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Mrs Taj
Mar 01, 2010 @ 07:48:23
ermmm to me is nop!! 8)
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Lyn Yusoff
Mar 01, 2010 @ 10:08:22
tak suka lah.. even dia ade fb ke ape.. tak hingin nak add or approved.. let bygone be bygone..
tak kuasa nak bukak buku lama2 tu balik..
even im not married yet.. Lyn lebih slesa my bf je yg ada kat fb i including my frens & family..
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yaty
Mar 01, 2010 @ 11:48:10
huhuhu..
kalo yaty, yaty x approve.. ignore kan sajer..
da lepas pn kan.. xperlu kot nk contact2 lagik.. 🙂
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kenwooi
Mar 01, 2010 @ 12:39:35
i think having ex’s on the list is not much a problem.. it’s practically nothing unless they start poking and flirting on FB la.. haha.. =)
mummyRayyan
Mar 02, 2010 @ 19:19:25
hmm…mmg x suka bnda2 mcm ni….i & my hubby mmg ade fcbook…penah sekali terbaca mesej from ex-gf hubby dlm fcbook hubby…kononnya minah ni nk tnya kabar la…eh meleret2 plak minah andartu ni nk ajak jumpa…dlm mesej bkn main gataiii sgt tergedik2 ajak jumpa…nmpk cam terhegeh2 lak…i sound dia x malu ke sibuk2 nk jumpa suami org..dh lps tu udah le…dh xde mkna nya nk sibuk2 jumpa…nk citer hal ape lg?? i trus delete name minah tu sblm di approvekn…until now x penah nmpk dh mesej pompuan tuhhh….meluat tul!
Ekin
Mar 03, 2010 @ 11:45:58
my personal opinion- tgk keadaan kot. I ade add my exBF, sebab putus dulu bkn gado pun.. lost contact je.. tapi mak dia still sygkan kite. so pelihara hbgn itu je.. dia pun dah kawen.. My hubby tau & x kisah, my ExBF penah dtg umah dgn family dia (tp x bwk bini la). So just kwn2 gitu.. benda dah lepas jgn dikenang2… ExBF lagi sorang x add tapi add bini dia sebab bini dia classmate i masa kat U dulu.. ahahaha..no hard feeling..
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