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redmummy is soooooo super buzyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!!!

 

 

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Red Problems!

U must be thinking mestiler rumah aku penuh dengan warna merah kan?

Definitely salah. Ada certain sections memang full of reds but ada sections lain memang takde tema merahnya pun.  Takkan semua bilik nak cat warna merah, kesian anak2 hakak, kena colour abuse ngan maknya kahkahkah.

So for their rooms, depa got to pick ler the colour they wanted. Sections lain pun akak buat for 3 weeks, eh dah macam citer Nippon pulak, my ads on that tak keluar yet, but they didnt sponsor my new house, they did for my current house, again. Tak sempat nak cat umah baru lah….heh panjang ler citernya.

So one of the weekends, once again kami menapak lagi pi kilang/warehouse/kedai2 barang rumah.

Ada satu top bathroom nak kena ada red colour. Merah lagi? baru jer ler ni nak pakai red top yang oi. Bathroom lain mana ada.  Lelain tu tiles dinding lantai ye yang merah.

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ini tiles dah part of 2 of my bathrooms tapi tak sesuai le buat top, kang air bertakung pulak kat sinki bagai, nasib baik ler Ah Seng bagi nasihat berguna.

 

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Hok nih, kecik punya, lelain size besar takde ler kaler merah. Amik ni kang alahai…dia yang 20 X 20 yang best but mana le nak cekau. Tak yah le korang cakap suh pi sana sini bagai, seantero KL ni punya most of the kedais aku dah carik. Kecuali luar Selangor je belum. Inipun aku jumpa balik kat kedai tiles Puchong aku nun

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ko ni nama jer Flash Red. tapi tak merah pun.

kat kilang ada stock ni jer, lepas 2,3 hari kemudiannya Ah Seng pun pasang le, but alah….napa tak merah!

hasilnya? hah nantilah, but macam tak merah menyala… sedih mak.

 

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merah camne ko nak kak red?

ko nampak seluar merah akak ni? hah merah ni. merah blog akak ni. cabai merah tu. darah merah kita. tu merah.

tak kenal lagi warna merah? tunggu aku buat kelas warna merah!!

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2014 in memory…

To flashback….

January

- Abang was in Form 1 already and Kakak in Year 4. RB pulak dah 2 years++

- Red Family bercuti-cuti ke Korea.  Sejuknya ya amatttttt It was quite an issue for Msian students in Korea coz i wasnt happy with the service given by 2 of them (tourist guides). It s not all pun, satu kepala ngan kaki sorangnya yang bad service.  Of cos, bad things bila keluar social media, kejap je jadi viral among them.  Relaxlah adik2, chill. 2 kawan korang je yang buat hal, depa pun dah abis belajar, ada nun keje kat Msia ni gak.

- Our 13th Anniversary, I dapat TOD’s handbag from RD, unfor aku lupa apa aku bagi kat laki aku kahkahkah. Damn, it s not even a year yet.

EDITED: Hey, i got him an Iphone 5S! ye ye betul.  aku belikan a few months before the date.

- Kids extra classes macam biasa ler, mengaji class (i memang dah bertahun engage a private ustaz datang our house for them), private tutor for mandarin sessions (specially for Kakak since abang has gone to secondary school).  Kumon and also badminton sessions.

- Blog Ads/Events – Jacob’s, Maybank, Maxis

February

- Red Family bercuti-cuti ke Legoland. Stay in Legoland Hotel and melenjan di Legoland Waterpark & Theme park. And of cos sempat singgah ke Hello Kitty Town, Lat’s Place, Little Big Club dan  JPO.   All these sponsored by Legoland.

- RM was featured in Majalah Nona

- RM & RD berhoneymoon di Singapore, not really. It was part of my blogging job, i had to be in Singapore for Shopping! Visa sent me to Singapore to shop till drop. Kau ado?

- I got my first Hermes bag but not ler the Kelly Birkin bagai tuh, it s Evelyne, in blue. Pun bought kat Singapore, Changi Airport. Kan VISA suruh shopping kan? hah kau.

- Menang chess lagi. My 8th year Woman Chess Champion.

- Blog Ads/Events – Visa, Maybank, HIDY

March

- Tragedi MH370 #prayformh370 . Where are they now? No answer yet, it s almost a year :(

- Red Family was featured in Nona TV3 .  My sajak on #prayformy370 pun dikeluarkan juga dalam Nona TV3. The shooting was done a few weeks before, shot kat GE Mall.

- The chronology of Hanez Suraya, Romie and Liyana Manan was out in my blog (i wrote it coz i cant accept the husband dok ‘mental abuse the wife and back up the gf and nak bring down the wife, sort of) and suddenly it went viral everywhere but a month later she (HS) asked me to put down the post. LOL.  Oh she s gonna be engaged this week, i heard?

- Blog Ads/Events – PopLook, Colgate, Sepetang Bersama Blogger 2014  anjuran Denaihati, RM was one of the invited speakers. I m so looking forward for this year’s event dear Denaihati.

April

- Red Family short trip ke Melaka

- RM terbang ke Jakarta, shopping ler apa lagi. No lah, ni pun blogging job, sent by ASUS.

- Blog Ads/Events – Colgate, Mercedes-Benz CL, Milo, Clinique, ASUS, Uniqlo, Sanofi Lactacyd, HCG Mediviron-UOA

May

- RM becomes Mak Tunggul again coz RD kena lagi outstation to  Hungary & Germany. Sambil-sambil tu during weekends dia merayap ke Austria & Slovakia.

- Yey we got the key for our new 3rd house -  TM’s home. Alhamdulillah.

- RM terbang je Jepun, this is not a sponsored trip, this is a collaboration between RM and Japan Budget Trip.So, no free trips dude!

- I got my last final bag of the year, Chanel Medium Classic in Lambskin. Kuning meletup. Final bag pasal lepas tu dah tak boleh nak beli bags coz the funds all goes to our TM’s home.   Oh husband bought my bag from Munich, Germany when he was working there on this particular month.

- Blog Ads/Events – KIA, Per’l Xlim, Vanish, Japan Budget Trip

June

- Attended KLFW 2014

- I started the HCG Treatment via Mediviron-UOA on March 2014 and in 28days i lost 12kgs! In my social medias platform, i posted on the foods yang i sendiri masak for healthy diet. 48kgs was the last number, though i hope to reach 45kgs. Dik, akak dulu masa anak dara 38kg je dik oi.  Biasa ler bila dah 48 nak 45 pastu nak 43 pastu kering longlai hahahaha. Sokay, 50kg pun dah just nice pun, even 52 as long tak boleh more than that, tu tahap bahaya for my body. Tengok gambar sebelum amik HCG, i was 60kg kau! that was like after 2 years having Zeeshan.

- Ramadhan, went to selected numbers of places for buka puasa and events of cos.

- Blog Ads/Events – PopLook, Astro, Spectrum of Life, Per’l Xlim, Bangi Golf Resort, Naf Prudential, HIDY

July

- Tragedi MH17 #prayformh17

- Happy birthday to me, the end of 3 series.  Oh I dapat rantai emas HABIB from suami. Pastu punya dia hantar surprise balon ke rumah, so mahal punya service pulak tu. Tolong jangan buang duit hantar balon2 camtu lagi ye suami, let s simpan duit for something else.

- Mak Ajah buat umrah lagi.

- Salam Syawal.  For the first time gak, suami kena kerja on the first 2 days of Syawal. Previous year lagi ler, lepas bape hari raya jer dah terus kena terbang to Europe.

 - Blog Ads/Events – Dr Hannan Aesthetic, Milktee, Dyson, HIDY, Dove

August

- Jalan-jalan raya, macam biasa raya ke Melaka

- Major renovation for our new house. I never mention this in my posts or any social medias at all. It s not reno, we actually re-building a house. Pecah roof, cabut tiles, pecah everything inside, redesign everything, This project takes 5 months. As of this entry is up, the house is almost siap. Teaser sikit :)

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as you can see, the bersepahnya lagi barang contractors coz memang belum siap pun lagi 100% rumah ni punya final touch up. We had our impromptu birthday event for Zeeshan here since the house dah fully painted. Amacam behind the scene, bersepah belakang kira ler. One of the main feature walls, the colours is called Sashay Red and the design/paints of the house, actually an ID of the house, is 90% by yours truly, lebih tu by laki aku. but decision final making kena consulted by laki aku gak lah, mutual agreement.

- 11th August 2014, i got a little bit of hidayah. Though i m still not wearing tudung yet but something happens for a reason. Thanks Allah for the reminder.

- Me and husband started back our kelas mengaji, a private tutor (ustaz) datang our house for the classes lah but tu lah sokmo je takde kelas dah lately ni pasal weekdays memang tak boleh (husband aku bukan ikut kerja local time, ikut Germany hours, balik kol 1 pagi), wkend je bila kita ada slot, if also ustaz ada slot too.

- Decided to shut down the blog, no exact date yet but when the right time comes, it will happen.

- Blog Ads/Events – Dyson, Princesss Victoria Stylo, ASUS, Premier Clinic, PediaSure, Astro

September

-  Kakak’s birthday – also known as Gegirl years ago, but bila hadhir adiknya, automatically jadi Kakak. She turns 10.  She decided to fully hijab. Alhamdulillah.

- Red Family cuti-cuti naik Genting, also part of my blogging job gak.

- Ke Penang for my bro’s wedding. Definitely for my family’s affairlah, bukan part of the blogjob. But of cos lah ada jalan ronda Penang too.

- My brother’s wedding for our side, but i never blog about this yet. Thanks to the bloggers and guests came but one thing for sure i dok ingat sangat, the caterer suck big time. A big no no no la, mouth spreaded, hopefully penipu ni lingkup.

- Blog Ads/Events – Resorts World Genting, Hermo

October

- The head telur of this kelabhashtag dok kacau aku (he s been blogging/tweeting/fb’ing about me since many years ago, but he repeatedly again this year). I never lawan this kepala telur, lawan means i never layan his ‘cheap attitude to gain votes’ macam mintak gang kelabhashtag dia join him to basuh me. Never. But on this date, i fought back for the first time. I cuma tak blog jer bout this thing (except now). I instagrammed, I FB’ed and semuanya I tagged him directly. Please dude @ telur, the head of kelabhashtag, leave me alone atau aku balas balik the ‘reflections’. I donno you, fullstop, so please cari mangsa lain.  Aku dah tua sangat nak melayan hal macam ni.

- RM ke Cambodia sempena Raya Haji, together with my Abah and Adik Bongsu. We did charity there, also dapat la jugak melawat tempat2 bersejarah and little bit of shopping there. Hilang jap stress kerja di KL. dapat jalan 5 hari je pun.

- Happy Birthday to Abang and RD, they both turns 13 and 41.

- Samsung video shoot at Westin Hotel.

- Red Family short trip kat Sungai Kuali Camp Site

- Blog Ads/Events – Sya Saleh Make Up, Bausch+Lomb, Dumex, Samsung KidsTime, Transitions® Signature™ Lens

November

- Had minor car accident

- Blogging job in Sabah for Coke.

- Hosted surprise baby shower for my buddy, Liza.

- Blog Ads/Events – Transitions® Signature™ Lens, Samsung KidsTime, Mediviron-UOA

December

Farm in the city, Aquaria KLCC, FRIM, IOI, for the kids. I cancelled our HK Disney trip coz we need to be in KL for the house reno, almost 90% done.

- Tragedi banjir Pantai Timur #prayforpantaitimur and #prayforQZ8501

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- Happy Birthday to Zeeshan, the 3rd one and gathering with GBM girls, technically the Dec toddlers birthdays event.

- After 2 weeks i got my car back from the service centre, the cost of repair tukar segala bagai, was RM17k ++, of cos lah via their insurance kita claim. Wow, what a number!

- Blog Ads/Events – Astro, Transitions® Signature™ Lens, PG Beauty, HIDY, Coca-cola, Astro,

- Transitions Lens, a wrap up for my ads posts, 9 posts for just about Transitions Lens! Yey!!

- The TM’s house as of 31st Dec. Kejam kay tayang one of the pintu toilets jer hahahaha.

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Thanks to the loyal readers, also to the new one or yang datang once a while mai visit, baca, komen dan terus menyokong RM. To the bloggers, my friends & families as well.  Actually this year is quite a tough year for me as a person/crew/blogger/ writer and as an influencer, few things happened yang cant even mention here. I almost broke down gak.  This year jugak I terpaksa reject about 4,5 jobs and 3 overseas trip. Not gonna to elaborate further but i wish for the best of 2015.

BIG thanks juga untuk Nuffnang, Churpchurp and all the advertisers under them dan juga tak lupa pada advertisers yg direct deal with us. Bolehlah contact me or email red@redmummy.com for any ads or events related. Another BIG thanks go to our hosting sponsor & provider ServerFreak.

Goodbye 2014. Welcome 2015! Lets target a good positive healthy and wealthy life. Insyaallah…

Redmummy @ Kak Red

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Misteri RM50…

Sebelum kita dibanjiri cerita heavy dalam RM nih, i nak letak cerita pendek sikit. Allah Maha Kuasa.

Kejadian baru jer berlaku, somewhere di depan sebuah kedai makan. I ada bagi duit kopi sikit or derma or whatever you nak panggillah pada seorang hamba Allah ni (hanya sipolan dan suami ai je tau yang I bagi duit ni kat dia), an RM50 note. Lepas tu kami terus berpisah arah, he ke kiri, akak ke kanan.

5 seconds selepas i melangkah, ada RM50 note di lantai. I dah melangkau duit tu, tapi kemudian I patah balik. I amik.

Takde ke orang nampak duit tu coz waktu I passed by duit tu pun ada 2 students/or 2 adik perempuan muda pun lalu kat situ jugak.

Anyway, kemudiannya I decided to dermakan the RM50 note, bukan hak saya pun.

I donno, something yang I rasa Allah uji mak merah kot, u just gave someone a RM50, so aku nak tengok ko amik tak duit ni untuk hak sendiri. Sort of lah.

I take it as a test from our God, tengok aku punya nafsu duit, bertahan untuk simpan masuk pocket sendiri atau nak buat apa. I hope by dermakan duit tu kat Masjid/Surau will settle the case. Hopefully lah. Untuk adik lelaki yang akak donated tu, duit kopi akak bagi tu, ikhlas…atas susah payah anda.

Hok orang kata kang, RM50 mampu la ko pejam mata, kot ada 50ribu ke 5 juta ko jumpa hah, ko boleh tahan ke nafsu? kahkahkah….tak yah berangan ler.

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Penghutang ringgits!

aku seriously tak suka bagi hutang.

Benci benci benci.

Dah banyak kejadian yang bila dibagi pinjam, yang lari tak bayar, yang kita kena mintak muka tebal, macam kita pulak meminjam!

Ada sorang blogger ni lagi lah, dia boleh ngan selambanya mintak pinjam,  aku bagi gak lah, dia bila kita ada sifat kesian nih, tu yg walau berjanji to self tak nak pinjamkan, still gak bagi. Tapi pastu aku lak hegeh2 kena remind bila nak bayar pastu dok cakap, cimb down, maybank down, is that my problem? masa ko nak pinjam berusaha ko carik orang yang pakai cimb ke maybank untuk aku transferkan duit ko pinjam, bila nak bayar, ko tak boleh nak usaha sama macam nak dapat?

dia ingat aku nak buat halal je semua benda? Ko pinjam kan?

Cara pemulangan duit pinjaman pun tak senonoh, so from there aku tau dah the true colour pompuan nih. Apa ke nama blogger ni tah, orang sarawak, aku dok cari lam FB, dah tak fren oh dia dah unfrend aku lah gitu. Sila ingat ko susah pasal hal kereta ko dulu, sampai semenanjung ko carik akak kan nak pinjam duit. Bila nak membayar, berpusing2 cakap.

Itu kisah lama punya cerita. Banyak lagi kisah lain yang malas nak ditulis di sini.

Dan as years goes by, masih lagi ada orang nak pinjam, hemm….

Satu  kisah ni, terbaru gak. Last month. Hari yang tayar kereta aku pancit yang ada samaritan letakkan note kat kereta aku. The next day nya. Nak dikisahkan, aku nya kereta kan kat workshop so aku pagi tu ada kat rumah, tunggu kereta siap, hp mak aku bunyik. Aku tolong jawabkan. Sempat aku dengo dia cakap

Ni saya ni Mak Ajah, kita ada jumpa kat bawah 2,3 minggu lepas. Makcik ingat tak?

mak aku pun macam blur2 jer, hah ye lah ingat. napa nak?

Makcik saya nak pinjam duit, aritu saya nak pinjam makcik cakap, makcik nak buat kenduri kawin anak makcik, sekarang dah habis kenduri, boleh tak saya nak pinjam seribu.

Wah aku dengar masa tu (mak bila cakap hp memang biarkan speaker) terus cakap Mak jangan bagiiiiiiiiiiii pinjam.

but pendekkanlah cerita yang panjang. Panjang nih, menggigil bila dikenangkan balik. Ko buli orang tua yek. Ko ingat sebab mak aku tu baik, cepat belas ikhsan, ko boleh nak ketuk pinjam seribu! Mak aku kenal pun tidak.  Alasannya dia ni single mom la, takde fund lah dan sebagainya macam2 alasan orang nak mintak pinjam duit le kan.

So instead of pinjam seribu, aku bagi pinjam RM300, dia datang rumah amik jam tu gak. Bukan duit Mak, duit aku. Walaupun dia berjanji kat Mak nak pinjam seribu nak bayar akhir bulan Oct.  Sekarang sudah early Nov, bayang pun tak nampak, tepon pun tidak. Bayangkan kalau bagi seribu?

Aku malas nak contact pompuan tu, aku tau camne nak cari dia tapi macam aku cakaplah, dah macam aku pulak yang kena kejar ko yet ko yang meminjam, ko tak boleh nak datang ngadap or call ke bagitau nak extension ke tak dapat nak bayar bulan ni seperti mana yg ko perjanjikan waktu nak pinjam duit sebulan lepas!!

Derma sedekah lain. I did my duties tapi ini pinjam. Hak peminjam tolong bayar. Pompuan ni pun banyak kona sana sini masalahnya, tujuan dia target mak aku pun coz dia tau mak aku ni baik (mak aku memang sokmo orang mintak pinjam je sanggup pergi bank keluarkan duit utk tolong bagi pinjam tu yang anak2 dok nasihatkan). Out of thousands and millions of people dalam dunia ni, dalam keluarga ko ke hapa, Mak aku yang ko baru jumpa kat kedai makan umah aku yang ko mangsakan. That s not right. My mom is almost 70 years old, sanggup mintak duit kat orang tua. Tu yang menjadi sakitnya hati aku sampai aku yang ganti sebagai pemberi pinjaman, tak sanggup aku tengok orang pinjam duit mak aku heh!

Nah…now double sakit hati coz orang tak bayau plak.

Sambungan (para2 atas was done siap few days ago)…aku called gak dia, dia mintak extend. Takpelah. aku nak dengar tu jer, bukan tak boleh nak tepon. Dulu boleh datang rumah aku nak pinjam, apasal tak boleh datang bagitau, sebab katanya sekarang tak sempat top up hp tak boleh call. Ini semua alasan!! So tunggulah, seminggu 2 ke camne bila dia nak membayonya.

I dont like lah macam takde hati budi  pekerti but at one time, aku tak suka orang pijak amik kesempatan!

But oklah dah lega sikit sakit hati coz dah dengo cakapnya, hati aku pun ada bunga tanjung gak, kalau ko cakap bebaik, nak mintak extend, i dont mind, asal jangan diam buat banganglah. So not right.

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