Frens

Matta Fear Factor and the groceries…

u know him?

He is my Fear Factor fren, we were in the same episode, but too bad Mr Matta had to be sending home after the 1st stunt….everytime we talk bout our FF moment, mesti teringat the key is bengkok… 🙂 yes that sentence from him appeared on line lak tuh…

Congratulations for Mr Matta, just got married few weeks ago, ai have lost contact most of my FF budies, ada yang masih lagi membaca blog ni quietly, ai know 🙂 .

You may retrieve the FF story from this link, it was in my old blog. The you tube ada kat side bar or on the top bar Red in Media.

This month, we spent more than usual, sebab nya fasting month ialah bulan memasak, jadi banyak yang kat dapur tu aku tambah penuhkan. Memang ye akak2, bulan puasa x kira kol bape lambat pun aku balik, tetap gak kena masak pasal sirman tu sahurnya kena bangun. ikut aku ngah malam num air kosong pun jadik, x larat seiii nak bangun, ni kalau ikut amalan masa anak dara dululah. Tapi kang orang tu muncung kalo x bangun sahur.

Since abang is gonna be fasting for the first time around, sahur kali ni aku nak ajak sirman bangun sesama gak. wpun main panas2 je lauk kat dapur tu, kalo ada geng pun best kan…

Oh saya x suka beli lauk kat bazar waktu berbuka, sirman ye akan kuor mencarik bagai macam2 juadah, aku banyak sejarah sakit perut makan dari bazar. kalau pun aku nak beli hanya satu lauk gerai tu je lah yang akan kutuju yakni gerai dari my personal caterer. sudah kutahu mana tpt meniaganya bulan puasa ini, those yang staying near by my area, kalau nak tau mana gerai pakcik makcik yang x akan buat ko sakit perut insyallah, roger me over contact red.

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Mom’s meeting…

i met them coz they are my frens though we are not good best buddies in the world

lesson untuk arini – yang tua kita hormati, walau luka parah dia menikam belakang…kalau kami silap yang tua bisa menegur kami face to face, ni pi cakap belakang mengata tikam2 mengapak parang. kalau dia menunjuk muka tak nak bertegur dengan kami anak beranak, wpun anak2 ku mesra tahap capan sama mereka, itu kehendak mereka sebagai yang tua, tapi sirman dan ai akan tetap mengajar anak-anak menghormati yang tua. anak-anak tu suci, x bersalah… 🙁

sepatutnya sirman tanya ‘apa problem ko bang ngan kami red family? tetiba je ko tikam2 kami ni kenapa’

Ai wanted to know, soalan yang sekian lama kupendam….sedih orang buat gini, kita takde masalah ngan orang tetiba orang menikam2 kita, aku x tau apa salah silap kami sekeluarga. kami buka pintu rumah untuk terima tetamu, tapi di belakang kami rupanya kami ditarah.

Mungkin ada hikmah di sebalik semua kejadian, tapi alangkah molek jika kami tahu apa sebab musababnya.

Hari ini hari Jumaat yang mulia….seminggu 2 lagi ramadhan.

Otherwise, kami buat resmi merah kami sendiri, let it go.

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Let’s read this story for friday’s mood…

There was a little boy visiting his grandparents on their farm. He was given a slingshot to play with out in the woods. He practiced in the woods, but he could never hit the target. Getting a little discouraged, he headed back for dinner.

As he was walking back he saw Grandma’s pet duck. Just out of impulse, he let the slingshot fly, hit the duck square in the head and killed it. He was shocked and grieved! In a panic, he hid the dead duck in the wood pile, only to see his sister watching!

Fatima had seen it all, but she said nothing. After lunch the next day Grandma said, ‘ Fatima , let’s wash the dishes.’ But Fatima said, ‘Grandma, Ahmed told me he wanted to help in the kitchen.’ Then she whispered to him, ‘Remember the duck?’ So Ahmed did the dishes.

Later that day, Grandpa asked if the children wanted to go fishing and Grandma said, ‘I’m sorry but I need Fatima to help make supper.’

Fatima just smiled and said, ‘Well, that’s all right because Ahmed told me he wanted to help.’ She whispered again, ‘Remember the duck?’ So Fatima went fishing and Ahmed stayed to help.

After several days of Ahmed doing both his chores and Fatima ‘s, he finally couldn’t stand it any longer.

He came to Grandma and confessed that he had killed  the duck. Grandma knelt down, gave him a hug and said, ‘Sweetheart, I know. You see, I was standing at the window and I saw the whole thing, but because I love you, I forgave you. I was just wondering how long you would let Fatima make a slave of you.’

Thought for the day and every day thereafter?

Whatever is in your past, whatever you have done… and the devil keeps throwing it up in your face (lying, cheating, debt, fear, bad habits, hatred, anger, bitterness, etc.)…whatever it is…You need to know that Allah was standing at the window and He saw the whole  thing. He has seen your whole life. He wants you to know that He loves you and that you are forgiven.

He’s just wondering how long you will let the devil make a slave of you.

The great thing about Allah is that when you ask for forgiveness, He not only forgives you, but He forgets. It is by Allah’s grace and mercy that we are saved.

Go ahead and make a difference in someone’s life today. Share this with a friend and always remember: Allah is at the window!

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Happy Birthday My Sis Pearl…

A friend is one you love
When times are calm and clear
When the sun shines so bright
And the air just spells out spring
These are the good times
Times to share with a friend.

A friend is one you trust
When others are not worthy
When everything’s amiss
And life is just not fair
These are the bad times
A friend should stay real close.

That’s friendship anyway, a complex word indeed.

by Linda Tusiime from the World of Poems


coz shes wearing red, so i choose this photo 🙂

To My Birthday Queen of Pearl

Each year your birthday reminds me
That ai really want to say
AI m very glad I know you;
Ai gotta know you from my red day red blog

Ai hope you enjoy your birthday,
All the pleasures it has in store,
And because I appreciate you,
Ai hope you have many more!

your Red Pearl is on the way, my partner in crime is doing all the technical part, ai ai to Kak Ann! The birthday wishes from my red blog also comes from my lovely readers, HAPPY BIRTHDAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY Pearl!!!! Alo Pato, kiss and hug for me pls to your wife yeah!

Love you Pearl from our Red heart 🙂

** kusudah buat wish list kamu itu, but not gonna announce it, you deserve lots of Reddish Pearl too!

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Message From Nadh…

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My heartfelt sympathy for those readers who are left in a “blur” state for not knowing or understanding what is happening in this blog. I was one of you too.

Kak Red messaged me on YM as soon as I got online last night and I guess, something must be wrong somewhere as she is not someone who has so much time to spare to be ‘chit-chatting’ around.

Firstly I would like to apologize to a fellow Singaporean for my sudden “attack” at her tag board last night. I was in rage. Anyone who hears the same news will definitely be in rage. I wanted to find the main “culprit” but it seems that she had her blog removed. So whomever is related or was part of the “family” is definitely gonna get the blow.

Anyway, I did mention something about visiting my country, that, well okay I apologize too. What was I thinking? Cit cit. Singaporeans ni actually semua bebaik orangnya. [Anyone to second me?]

And after much thought, I will say that both parties are wrong. I don’t take sides. But as much as I’m concerned about being a fellow blogger, kak red’s avid reader and your silent reader, I guess I have to do something to keep the blogging community ‘clean’.

I am no blog inspector, neither am I a god-sent advisor so I don’t really expect you people to listen to me. [Lu sapa, gua sapa lah kan.]

You being a photographer who loves to eat, you being the friendly neighbor who loves to cook and travel, you being a bubbly and cheerful person, you being a Singaporean who doesn’t even know Singapore’s birth date [Chet.], you the guy with no name and to whom it may concern [I only visit these bloggers mentioned], I am sure and very sure that during the period you have known Kak Red, there is something that she has done good to/for you. Am I right?

Once hated, no matter what that person do, you will only have negative thoughts and in your eyes, that person is always bad. I have been in such state and I am not shy or ‘paiseh’ to tell the whole world about it. I had my fair share once too, and that is with the person whom I’ve been friends with for over 10 odd years. People change and well, no one is perfect after all and that includes me.

Semua orang pun buat kesilapan jugak, tapi mengata dan menghina sipolan dan sipolan di blog memasing adalah satu perkara that can really and will tarnish your image as a blogger. And worst, you leave readers in a “???” state. Do you think its fair to them? You may have the power to write and of course it’s your own blog, but do not misuse it. FYI, there are things like “plagiarism”, “intellectual property” and etc. Oh, did I mention about the possibility of facing a legal lawsuit for defaming someone? Oops.

I hope this will end. Easy said than done. And trust me, this blog “war” will never end unless YOU YOURSELF put an end to it. If you don’t even like that person, do not even visit their blogs, what not worshipping it (Our dear Kak Red has stopped visiting your blog, but people keep on coming to send news to her, the price that she has to pay!). And those being the “two-faces” who will tell stories to the mentioned parties, you whole lot is actually the mastermind in this. Happy eh to see people dissing each other? Stop your act at once and stop ruining other people’s lives. I am sure you have better things to do, no?

So please, keep it clean and start a fresh. I will not say, “Forgive and forget” as it is never easy to forgive and what not forget. Please forgive me, her, she, him and he but never forget, cos when you forget, you’re giving up the experience too.

I apologize again if whatever I wrote may seem rude but I ensure you I take no sides and only wanted what’s best for fellow netizens and the blogging community.

To my dear Kak Red, your redmummy.com has a promising future in years to come. I hope you will start doing it before others take lead. It’s okay if they’re not bothered to cos this will mean something. At least you made a difference. =) I am so sorry if this seems hard on you, but I can ensure that this is the best for you. *hugs* Please stay strong.

To LL, on a lighter note, I can accept the fact that you called me names. “Babi”, “Gemok”, “Pendek”, [Someone mentioned that I am taller than you of course!] and one more which I cannot tolerate lah, “Hitam”.

HITAM rambut kepala itu dijunjung, PUTIH tapak kaki itu dipijak.

Know where you stand my dear, know where you stand.

=)

Thank you all.

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Redmummy said: this will be the last entry bout this issue, i want to remain silence if it comes to my page again n again. Do respect my decision, saya x nak lagi terlibat dengan sesiapa yang berkenaan, saya x nak lagi membuka aib sesiapa. Enaf is enaf. Just leave me wt my own red world, my red blog my red family and my red life. Thankies.

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Red Private Meeting…

i met someone secretly at my parking, when i was about to move my car, balik umah lah….

she took something from my bonet, left wt smile….

stimes better dont put ppl’s face in my blog, so orang tu akan freely walk in my blog tanpa dapat tempias sumpah seranah and makian from other parties yang x sukakan saya pastu depa pun dapat nama…

even she doesnt has a blog, i know sooner or later ppl can recognize her kalau pernah kuor lam blog ni….kesian, u guys are not my enemies, tp saya yang menjadi musuh mereka makanya wajah2 kesayangan redmummy.com pun berkurangan….

next week cuti sekolah…

saya sukaaaaaaaaaaa 🙂

macam aku lah pulak yang pi sekolah kan….

huhuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu! boleh saya turun ke Labuan?

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